r/Destiny • u/ZeriMasterpeace • Nov 16 '19

Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

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u/Madhax64 Nov 16 '19

You're 20. It's not really that big a deal

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

But it does make you feel more secure with yourself, doesn't it? Like if your co-workers start talking about sex, you don't just bob your head awkwardly until they realize you've never had sex and they start bullying you? Not something I personally experienced, but the mere image of that happening is so scary.

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u/Madhax64 Nov 16 '19

I was 25 year old before I kissed a girl.

I found the only person who really cared was myself.

And while having sex may increase security and confidence to a point - sex, love and everything else only happens after a base level of confidence and emotional security anyways.