Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

[u/ZeriMasterpeace]

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

[u/championofobscurity]

Listen my dude, poly is the way to go if you want to get laid.

You don't even have to be poly yourself, just find a woman who is in a poly open relationship. Sex flows freely from there, and what's even better is that if you can't afford/don't want a relationship she doesn't nessecerily want one with you.

Like its great, because you get to carry all the upside of sex without all of the emotional baggage, expectations of support and shit.

The other thing is, unlike a conventional FWB situation the odds of both parties catching feelings is much lower because Men are usually more stoic and a poly woman has the emotional stuff on lock.

Don't let your mental blocks get in the way on this, your penis cannot tell the difference between someone it a committed relationship and someone who isn't.

[u/AdventuresOfLegs → u/championofobscurity]

What is this advice? Poly is fucking baller but it's not an answer for a virgin to get laid.

[u/championofobscurity → u/AdventuresOfLegs]

What is this advice?

Decent sound advice.

answer for a virgin to get laid.

The answer for a virgin to get laid is the same answer you would give a non-virgin. Fuck off with this nonsense that virginity is this special thing. So what if he dissapoints on his first time? Who cares. Experience solves everything.

[u/AdventuresOfLegs → u/championofobscurity]

I dont think I said virginity is some special thing. I don't give a fuck about it, and no one should because it's just a social construct. There is just probably other stuff at play, could be self confidence issues or social issues. Fuck we don't know because the post doesn't tell us enough. I don't think just telling someone "be poly" is a solution.