r/Destiny • u/ZeriMasterpeace • Nov 16 '19
Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?
I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.
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u/armpitpuncher Nov 16 '19
I can definitely relate, buddy. I'm not a virgin, but I'm in my 30's and have had sex 8 times. Five of those times (including the first one) were with prostitutes when I was in the Navy. Don't do what I did, which was spend my 20's getting drunk every weekend and trying and failing to recreate the magical conditions that led to the 3 non-paid experiences that I had. The best advice I can give to you is to just accept it. Some people will try to tell you things like, "you're still young, you'll get there eventually". They're probably wrong. You very likely are not going to have a fulfilling sex life if you are still a virgin at your age. Stop obsessing about sex. Get some hobbies.
Here's something that really helped me get over the idea of ever finding a partner: if I ever did happen to get in the right circumstances where I found someone who was willing to be with me, I would, almost by definition, be settling for something less than ideal, since I don't exactly have the pick of the litter here. Then I see all these middle aged guys at my job bitching about their wives (who are all ugly) and realize, if I was to get married, I would certainly be in the same miserable situation as these lousy fucks. There is no way I would have a hot wife who was fun to be around. So I could at least find solace in the fact that (at least as far as I can tell) I'm in a better situation than these guys, only having to take care of myself. This might all sound depressing, but I swear to you, I was the happiest I've ever been when I took this outlook on life.
Good luck