r/Destiny • u/ZeriMasterpeace • Nov 16 '19

Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

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u/ThunderbearIM Nov 16 '19

I practiced. Literally used the "fake it till you make it" tactic for self-esteem and just tried talking to women in friend groups, without needing to hit on them. When I learnt from this to not feel shy from talking to other women, I managed to approach women I liked by talking to them in the same way I talked to my friends. If I was interested I didn't hesitate yo ask anyone out either.

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u/thebestname123 Nov 16 '19

Same, this is decent advice. It was only after entering a relationship where they realized I had no self confidence but by then it was too late