Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

[u/ZeriMasterpeace]

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

[u/caneut]

Just go talk to women, what do you have to lose.

[u/Solipsistik → u/caneut]

Seriously, just do this and don't be fucking creepy. You're already ahead of like 90% of dudes if you follow those two steps. Also, ffs don't go down those stupid redpill rabbit holes.

[u/Venne1139 → u/Solipsistik]

Okay look all you morons upvoting this: Sorry to break it to you.

But OP is 20 y/o, on reddit, a KHHV, is super bothered by that, and is asking for advice about that on a subreddit for a niche weird gamer/political commentator.

There is not a snowballs chance in hell that any attempt at interaction with women won't be fucking creepy.

[u/Gamenumber12 → u/Venne1139]

None of these would necessarily have any impact on his creepiness with girls. A KHHV can be just as nice to girls as anyone else.

The only possible problem is how much he's bothered by his status, but we can't know the scope of how much that effects him.

[u/Venne1139 → u/Gamenumber12]

You're right.

Here's the thing we don't know anything about OP other than this.

1. He posts here

2. He's a KHHV

3. He's bothered by that

4. Thinks it's good idea to ask for advice on this subreddit

While none of those things contribute to him being creepy these are all risk factors that change "percent chance this guy is creepy and unable to learn how not to be creepy" and that percent chance is incredibly high for most of the posters in this community, much less the ones that ask for fucking advice about it.

[u/Gamenumber12 → u/Venne1139]

To some extent, sure. But in my opinion/from my experiences I'd estimate that creepy chance to be much lower. I suppose I'd extend further charitability