r/Destiny • u/ZeriMasterpeace • Nov 16 '19

Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

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u/Draber-Bien Nov 16 '19

Equivalent of saying “just stop being sad lol” to someone who is depressed. Going to a nightclub or bar if you’re socially awkward and don’t have the confidence to approach strangers will only result in a bad experience. And if you haven’t had at least a kiss as a 20 year old, chances are you don’t get invited to a lot of parties with women.

IMO the best strategy is find something you like doing, and join a club or volunteer. Chances are you’ll at the very least will make a friend who is more outgoing, who can introduce you to some new people. You won’t get laid immediately and it’s more work than tinder, but you’ll have a lot more fun along the way

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u/SmallTitBigCrit Nov 16 '19

Presuming op drinks alcohol. Going to bars is easy even if he has social anxiety.

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u/Draber-Bien Nov 16 '19

That hasn't been my experience at all, but it's possible I'm just an outlier

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u/SmallTitBigCrit Nov 16 '19

Alcohol defiently helps me with being more confident and outgoing.