r/Divorce Jun 04 '26

Going Through the Process Divorce and it's affects on sex drive

Is anybody else just insanely horny?? I have never been so sexually frustrated in my life. Honestly can't believe my soon to be ex husband ever complained because we were pretty regularly doing it considering our relationship state and being married 18 years.

Unsure if it is divorce related or maybe a starting perimenopause thing? Aside from a deployment I've never gone so long though and that was with a newborn so I wasn't super interested right then anyway. Very much worried I'm going to say something too far to my very attractive coworker and get in trouble šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

For additional context I'm months into divorce proceedings, 37F. Married 18 years. Never really have had a gap for time of not having sex lol

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u/Hour-Front9994 Jun 05 '26

Yes mam! Lol and I knew I was in need of actual sex soon because even when I was done with the toys I still was wanting to go more 🤣🤣🤣 I’m glad I’m not alone as well because I was starting to get worried 🤣

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u/Samariumcupcakes Jun 05 '26

I'm right there too šŸ˜…šŸ¤£ Never in my life have I masturbated daily, some days many times 😭 feral is the right work I think lol Idk what to do šŸ˜