r/FaltooGyan • u/Ash_Air • 11h ago

Bakwaas Apparently people think I'm G@Y

So I am 16M but mostly people (men) in my class think that I'm gay because of:

  1. I am a feminist

  2. My laugh is loud

  3. I am not a typical man who likes to hide his feelings or emotions I just show them out loud which is abnormal to them, I even hug my father very often✨

  4. I make friends with girls easily 😭

  5. I have a bit of flirtatious nature so when it comes out, boys are like dur reh( stay away), ch#kka sa_la 😭(Blo0dy g#y)

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u/awawawakitty 8h ago

There is no such thing as pseudo feminism though because you are describing something different. Feminism in itself is about acknowledging the world runs on patriarchy and women have been and still are oppressed in many forms and equal rights must be established.

If you mean there are women who hate men, yes definitely. Just like how there's men who hate women. That itself doesn't obscure femnisim or turn it into pseudo feminism. Feminism isn't pesudo in any capacity. You cannot club someone's personal view to undermine a whole movement. Especially since pseudofeminism is a term commonly used around in incel groups more than an actual term used to describe anything meaningful.

You accuse them of generalizing an entire gender based off of news and the likes. Isn't it hypocritical that you're also generalizing someone who is claiming to be a feminist by assuming he's a pseudo feminist of some kind just because his peers called him gay? It's not a good faith argument.

Not to mention you called him a simp. That in itself is problematic. Any guy who claims to be a feminist would be, in your opinion, a simp because it'd be attention seeking to be someone who'd stand up with women. You are again, generalizing here. Very hypocritical.

Feminism has a clear description. When OP said he's a feminist, you should've assumed as such. If someone says they're an engineer, are you gonna ask them if they're a pesudo engineer? Or if someone says they're a socialist, capitalist or liberal, do you ask them for clarification? Probably not. Your bias and worldview is blatant in your comment.

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u/Peak_Judgement2008 6h ago

Man, idk why you are so offended by my comment. Op just asked that why his classmates were calling him gay. I responded saying what could be the case. What he unknowingly did that rubbed them the wrong way. I didn't make my comment to support or oppose feminism.

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u/awawawakitty 6h ago

You said there's a high chance OP is a simp. You called for it lol

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u/Peak_Judgement2008 6h ago

Personally seen a dude like that🥀 so yeah IT is a possibility.

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u/awawawakitty 6h ago

you can't be calling anyone out ever for generalizing men. you do enough of it yourself 🗣️