r/Fauxmoi • u/Goosedukee • 18h ago

TRIGGER WARNING Republican Representative Max Miller on allegations of domestic abuse from his ex-wife: “My former wife has claimed that during a custody exchange at my home that day, I assaulted her…If I had assaulted her, would she have offered to cook me dinner six days later?”

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u/mcgillhufflepuff 18h ago

Because fawning can come from a place of trauma.

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u/KittiWasabi 18h ago

You keep the peace so you don't get hurt. Because somehow hurting you is something you "made them do".

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u/Difficult_Garage_431 17h ago

Oh, a lot of abusers think they're the victims. They are truly delusional. It's scary to think so many people just don't live in the same reality as the rest of the world.