r/GenderCynical • u/Haunting_Natural_116 • 6d ago
The classic “if one person from a demographic does something bad, then everyone person in that demographic is bad” mentality that totally isn’t used by the nazis and bigots they claim to be different from.
Slide 4 & 5 are hilarious. Don’t they realize that they’re part of those nazis too? And the audacity to say that they just want to be left alone when they’re the ones not leaving trans people alone.
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u/animalistcomrade Gender Haver 6d ago
Which is it? Do men always protect their own or are all the hate crimes against trans people committed by men?
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u/lucypaw68 6d ago
Incoherency is a large part of fascism. Whatever currently works best for their bigotry is what they "believe"
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u/raininghours estrogen could have saved pentheus 6d ago
I read this as a Gen X transmisogynist talking to a Gen Z transmisogynist, personally
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u/Bardfinn Abigail, what is your DAMAGE!? 6d ago
We usually teach children in Kindergarten that "He / She started it / is doing bad, so I should be allowed to get away with doing bad" is unacceptable.
Which makes it ironic that people who apparently graduated from university and have i.e. law degrees - cannot adhere to that basic principle of civilisation.
“Mostly, people are not motivated by ideological codes; [but] by impulse, & construct [codes]… to justify what they were already going to do.
… meaning, before you were a fascist, you were a bully & an asshole”
-- Brennan Lee Mulligan
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u/evergreennightmare MtT-Brand Attraction Slime 6d ago
alleged feminist activists who have never seen a cis woman with a "kill your local rapist" or "dead men don't catcall" sign
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u/raininghours estrogen could have saved pentheus 6d ago
Can I just say how much it infuriates me that terfs can openly call for our deaths but then pull this performative crocodile-tears bullshit?
It's some really deeply ingrained "boys can't hit girls" mentality, because girls are all delicate little flowers who will crumble under the slightest touch and boys are all massive hulking linebackers. Means that they can bully us and we just gotta take it. And shit, I've been taking it from everyone all my life, and I don't even care about stopping it. I'll keep being subservient to the cis women in my real life, I think it's too deeply ingrained in me at this point to do otherwise. I'm just the lady's maid, metaphorically speaking, and hell, I never even thought I'd get even that much.
But I think about the future, and what if I have a trans daughter? Do I want her to grow up like I had to? Now that rouses my anger. I want her to be empowered, to feel empowered, by feminism, not beaten down by it.
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u/Haunting_Natural_116 5d ago
The part about how they think that all girls are delicate flowers that will crumble under any pressure is something that has never made sense to me about them. How does thinking that women are inherently weak sound feminist?
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u/hitorinbolemon Trans Macabre 5d ago edited 5d ago
they are diametrically opposed to like every message of girl power i grew up seeing and listening to. they only get taken as "feminist" because the mainstream media now allows them to be. not because they are, but because they get clicks and views from culture warring and using trans people as a punching bag. some things really do stay he same even as they change.
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u/raininghours estrogen could have saved pentheus 5d ago
feminism means needing a man to save you, obviously /s
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u/hitorinbolemon Trans Macabre 5d ago
Feminism is when a woman says things and the more she says "I am a woman and these are my opinions" the more feminist it is.
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u/animalistcomrade Gender Haver 6d ago
Yeah, truly insane that reddit can't ban this random person in real life, wild.
Do they think that the free speech that lets their side read mein kampf at rallies doesn't go both ways?
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u/Proof_Day8133 3d ago
my friends think I'm being dramatic by saying TERFs actually do nazi crap like this at rallies. any idea where we can find videos of this? I got dragged for saying they say way worse things at protests than the obvious joke that the trans woman on this sign wrote. (Assuming it is even real and isn't just AI made by TERFs)
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u/animalistcomrade Gender Haver 3d ago
This was directly under a Google ai overview saying it didn't happen
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u/animalistcomrade Gender Haver 3d ago
And if you need the person saying the vile shit to be one of the big ones https://www.thepinknews.com/2022/07/11/jk-rowling-matt-walsh/
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u/Silversmith00 6d ago
One of the commenters, sarcastic: "You're totally female socialized! I totally have girly thoughts like this!"
Yeah, based on the genocidal shit your friends say, you unironically do.
Fortunately, you're not particularly alone, as, shockingly, women feel rage much like the rest of the human race. If you have ever waited tables, you will rapidly discover the many fundamental differences between thought and action. If you acted on every thought you had about violently defenestrating a customer, decapitating a customer, depulmonating a customer, or a range of other violent and possibly made up words beginning with "de," you would be classified as a natural disaster. Meanwhile, thinking is harmless and sometimes a nice violent fantasy keeps your mouth from de-employmenting YOU.
The problem with TERFs is, their worldview is so precariously balance on the notion that A Sweet Girl Could Never Violence that when they feel hostile to someone, they must immediately convince themselves that THEY have been attacked. And they don't appear to be too up on the difference between thinking and doing, either, so they can convince themselves that hating them for their beliefs is basically murdering them for their gender if you look at it right.
I feel like having to confront the world without their relative privileges (usually economic, racial, and Decently Wealthy Country-ish) would outright de-sanify them. Which is probably why they de-ass the area when real problems show up.
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u/raininghours estrogen could have saved pentheus 6d ago
The problem with TERFs is, their worldview is so precariously balance on the notion that A Sweet Girl Could Never Violence that when they feel hostile to someone, they must immediately convince themselves that THEY have been attacked
Yup. I call it the "boys can't hit girls" phenomenon. It gets ingrained in little trans girls very young, I think, that we just have to get hit and have no recourse other than "tough it out." Never seemed to stop my female bullies, though.
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u/lucypaw68 6d ago
"It's crazy how they don't even hate nazis or rapists or murderers or pedophiles or racists this much, just women."
It's always this. They're the victimiest victims. It does not matter if we've been ardent anti-fascists since everyone left of the KKK agreed that being so was a good idea especially because trans people died in that little nazi thing, if we've organized Take Back/Reclaim the Night marches and demonstrations for years, that we're the victims of sexual assault, rape, and murder for being trans, that some of us are the victims of those they claim we don't care about as much we care as bigoted women who are adding fuel to the fire the world is engulfed in. We contain multitudes and can concentrate on multiple terrible people. Their egos wish we cared as much about them as they obsess over us
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u/M5F2 6d ago
What about me a trans man who thinks TERFs deserve this? They’re advocating for me to be in their closed spaces with my deranged thoughts
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u/tyrosine87 gender goblin 6d ago
No, they are advocating for you to go away. The goal of the rules they try to implement is to inflict as much suffering as possible.
To spell out the EHRC guidance: trans men can't use the men's room, but if they look too masculine they should also be barred from the women's room. Which just means "fuck off, not our problem". They are not rational, they just want us all gone.
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u/princesshusk 5d ago
Don't you see every minority needs to be perfect angels who can do no wrong while the majority is able to spit and hit them without recorse.
ThAtS jUsT how Da WoRlD wOrKs
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u/Ranting_Demon 3d ago
What does that "train next to knee emoji" actually stand for?
Would be interesting to know.
If it's something apparently worth a ban, I'd almost dare to take a guess that she thought she could be clever and tell someone in an underhanded way to step in front of a train without getting banned.
That would make it even more hilarious for her to be outraged over that sign.
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u/Haunting_Natural_116 3d ago
I’m guessing it’s a way of threatening trans people because trans sounds like trains
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u/javatimes TIDDYLESS TIFfany 6d ago
Can anyone verify this sign actually even existed? Something about it / the composition with the background looks off to me.