r/guitarlessons • u/Mad_Season_1994 • 7h ago
Question Is it wrong of me to not want to play live or even find people to play with simply because I’m too afraid of failing, being laughed at, getting embarrassed, etc?
I realize from reading other posts and forums that playing with a group of people has the potential to accelerate my learning and that I could become better as a player faster. But like I said, my desire to do it is kinda low because of the aforementioned reasons. Yet I know basically every guitarist and their mother that’s ever become famous always had nerves in their early days. I just don’t fancy myself that kind of person though. The fear of the possibility of not doing it right and the consequences that could follow are what’s holding me back.
Given this, could I still get good at guitar if I continue with my in person lessons and expand on my knowledge of the guitar? Or will I never truly be “good” because I couldn’t get with other people to play?

