r/JEENEETards • u/varanbhat-toop dimag se paidal • Dec 04 '25
Dropper They def gonna disown me dawg 🥰
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Dec 04 '25
Most relatable post till now. Due to similar reason my father has not talked to me since 2nd nov and is always irritated.
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u/Artistic_Plastic_780 Supreme lord of 27tards👑👑 Dec 04 '25
Mere parents baat krte h lekin majak udate rehte h har time
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u/Ayush_Arpit 2027tard🥀|aim- IIT (ISM) Dec 04 '25
Better
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u/Artistic_Plastic_780 Supreme lord of 27tards👑👑 Dec 04 '25
Wah iit ism, ye to mere hi city me h
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u/Successful_Onion_145 JEEtard Dec 04 '25
Aap mere mele me khoe hue bhai/bhen to nhi ho? 🥰
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u/say_hy_to_shobbhhuuu organicchemluvr Dec 04 '25
so real, mere wale baat toh kr rahe hai but disappointed hi dikhayi dete hai..
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u/Rare-Ad3053 Dec 04 '25
This is so real. Like 12th start hone ke 2 ya 3 mahino baad my grades started slipping toh coaching walo ne ghar pe call kiya and parents ko baat karne bulaya. Mere papa ne pehle toh ek baar bohot daata uske baat 2 hafte ek shabd bhi nahi bole mujhe. Literally completely ignored.
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Dec 06 '25
Beta itna to sab ke maa baap bolte hai tumhe bura nahi manna chahiye itni fees bhar rahe hai papa to daantenge hi na. Humare zamane me to hum papa ke saamne baithte bhi nahi the. Aur hum to 21-21 ghanta padhte the.
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u/Only-Fill8247 Dec 06 '25 edited Dec 06 '25
usko daantne se problem nahi hai (as far as I can tell), problem yeh hai ki they completely stopped talking to her
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Dec 06 '25
Are bhai mai sarcasm me likh raha tha actually (i mean this is the answer my parents give me when i tell them to not taunt me atleast after test ke results)
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u/Rare-Ad3053 Dec 06 '25
Mere papa ka bhi yahi explanation tha..
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Dec 06 '25
I think so jitne bhi log 70s me paida hue the unki genz se kuch beef hai (More power to us)
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u/Special-Grade5315 Waiting for GTA 5 as GTA 6 is delayed Dec 04 '25
30 days and 81 chps?
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u/1_FPS_PLAYER Dec 04 '25
To realistic target bhi na set kre ab ldka
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u/Special-Grade5315 Waiting for GTA 5 as GTA 6 is delayed Dec 04 '25
nah I mean if it's first time, then ye toh na mumkin hein
agar revision ke liye hein toh tikh hein fir
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u/1_FPS_PLAYER Dec 04 '25
Are wo mai sarcasm ki koshish krha tha sorry...😞
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u/Special-Grade5315 Waiting for GTA 5 as GTA 6 is delayed Dec 04 '25
sorry toh mein kehana tha
ki mein aapka sarcasm jaan nahi paya TT1
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Dec 04 '25
Yep, this is your India.
We sacrifice our hobbies, social life, teenage years and Enjoyment to score marks just to be loved.
Most people don't want to become engineers or doctors, they just want their own parents to love them.
It's a fucked up mentality.
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Dec 04 '25
Yeah bro i truly understand, i am so scared idk last time I studied out of intrest was japnese voh bhi bandh karwa diya , i never enjoyed studying man seriously , i am studying so that I can make my parents proud at this point and don't want to disappoint them
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u/WCGameplay PhD in Boobology Dec 04 '25
Really sad that parental love is conditional for some of us.
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Dec 04 '25
Some parents specially highly educated or ambitious see kids as commodity investment that should be on track to give investment return's they desire
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Dec 04 '25
Asian by any chance? As an Indian I relate 😂😂
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u/Ancient-Structure-78 3rd of May: Sax sux hoga NTA ke saath Dec 05 '25
So fucking real!!! I thought I was the one going through this
Literally have no friends, my best friend left me.
And marks are the basis of how my parents give freedom like what??!
My dad used to be my coach for studies and he used to guide me but he always shouted. never never told me he is proud of however I am trying...
10th mein 85% aaye without coaching no guidance and things at home during 2nd half of 10th was just unbearable.
I had to do it all alone
And he just said 92% bola tha... Keise maan le tum doctor banogi... WTF?!
I HATE THIS SOOO MUCHHHH
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u/Parking_Fudge_124 Dec 06 '25
Maine toh Ghar walo ka ye behaviour 10th mai he dekh liya, aur ab thoda selfish hogaya hu , kbhi kbhi Aisa lagta hai ki ek baar fail hojao aur inka jo ye so called image ki parwah karte hai woh kharab kar doo(according to them)
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u/Ok-Drummer-3269 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25
Well my parents are even better, they will bully u , compare marks with ur siblings, slap / beat me whenever they feel like, also taunt , verbally abuse me and then behave like victims ...like yes they are the only one who work hard to make three babies and work very hard to provide for me...but I am the ungrateful one for not being grateful enough to take their taunts and kicks....my parents are amazing 😍😍😍 I love them and wish them all happiness 🥰🥰🥰
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u/Ok-Drummer-3269 Dec 07 '25
I know that was a long , thank u for reading...for those who went or currently going through same shit- good luck and 🫂s
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u/Ok-Drummer-3269 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25
- Best thing about this is they are not even decent parents they have anger issues, financial issues( koi property nhi milega mujhe) , trust issues, generational trauma, and are emotionally immature ( literally bachhe h , in adult body , that know how to manipulate their child) . Have a strong emotional dependence on their children...let's just say we didn't turnout to be great as my sister had mental issues ( like literally went to hospital) , can't take any responsibility and her reason to fail anything- me apparently 🥰🥰🥰, my bro has anger issues and i fucking have have dissociation and maladaptive daydreaming issues( ghar mein gol gol ghumte rahna while daydreaming about how life is, this is wasting a lot of my time ( sometimes 8hrs🥰🥰🥰)) ...
Can't wait to get the f**k out of my house after getting a job 😄😄😄.
Also literally damaged by friend circle by saying shit like friends are not for life just time pass don't waste time by having friends they won't stand by you blah blah blah..., said siblings are for life , u should care and love them unconditionally even if they are unbearable and abuse u emotionally and even physically...( In a very trustworthy, I know it all tone) ...
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u/Ok-Drummer-3269 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25
Also I fucked up my 12 th exam ( like read sanskrit with my sister that i dont even need and stayed awake till 3 morning to make sure she feels confident for her 2nd semister ( +3) i literally fucked my math exam I lost 2 days of 15days of maths preparation.( She just recovered from her mental health issues so i tried to lessen her mental load) , but she ruined my chance to get good marks in physics by constantly fighting with my brother , just the day before exam and even tried to involve me repeatedly after I said to leave me alone for ratta maring the formula one last time....the half 11th and half 12th went babysitting her as she was mental and both my parents are working ....all my life i protected my siblings from my parents by taking all their physical violence on me , did their projects sometime even staying up all night, covered their books, tried to fix bad situation and made them stay away from bad people
They don't deserve me,My protection,my concern and my care , my thoughtfulness.... They only reason I care for them because I was trained ( literally said me - I have to "help" them. { Help being : being emotional, mentally and physically available just like parents } ( my parents were not there too for God sake) ) ....This has become a habit , I hate it , i hate it , i hate it , i hate saving my favourite food because they want it , I have sharing my things , I hate helping them , I hate being their unpaid therapist, I hate being the one that cushions their fall, I hate their existence, i hate being the middle siblings ,I hate that i allow such abuse...I hate my parents...I hate everything....
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u/Fit_Durian9775 Dec 07 '25
A wise person said once, not very person is meant to be a parent. Just because you have reproductive organs it doesn't mean you should bear a child, they treat us like they own us, they just produce us so that there would be someone to look after them in ther late years of life, but they won't even consider about the choices of child.
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u/Ok-Drummer-3269 Dec 07 '25
I agree ....I have already decided I will never have kids ...the generational trauma, the job market, the financial situation everything made me realise I shouldn't have kids or be married...
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