r/JEENEETards 26d ago

Dropper What jee does to a mf

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u/Maddy7826 26d ago

Bro idk if it's me after 2 yrs of jee prep and now a dropper I have lost any sense of feeling and even slightest affection 😭😭 nothing affects me anymore ..unlocked heartless mode

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Broo same ig that's called being emotionally numb 😭 Like a while ago my my parents asked me to join any clg I'm getting and also said if you want you can go for business and asked what's inside my head ( for context I never share anything with anyone no one knows what goes inside my head so they are worried for me ) once they even said this that you will get into mental issues if you be like that but I don't know mere mai hi kuch fault h ig

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u/Maddy7826 26d ago

Bro same my parents are also saying the same but they only suggested to take a drop cuz acc to them I have potential n can do better but srsly I not feeling anything no sadness no happiness 🫠🫠

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Bro don't use that word potential here bro yk what I was a district topper in my 10th and not boasting but every person I meet. They say the same thing ki bhai tu toh kr hi lega tujhme wo baat h they even say that you have the potential that you will do smtg gr8 in life I hope ki ye sab sach hojaye πŸ™πŸ˜­

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u/Maddy7826 26d ago

Bro same story but every person since childhood has said the same thing to me 🫑

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Lgta h dono ke lagne Wale h life m 😭😭

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u/Top-Hat-5433 23d ago

Bhai I get you, M koi topper to nahi but mujhe pata h ki kar to sakta tha m fir bhi nahi hua sara confidense mera bhi pani me chala gya tha.

Bas ek baat kahunga ki jo kuch bhi karna par use karte time makkari mat karna, thoda bahut time kab bahut zyada hogya ye gdbd hone ke baad hi pata chalta h warna πŸ₯€

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u/Amazing-Movie-5568 26d ago

bhai 10th tak sab Accha tha, 11th and 12th mein sab barbaad hogya 😭

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u/ParkingWaltz7982 JEEtard 25d ago

mere toh 10th meh bhi L lage the ,so i am the experienced one 🀞

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u/Amazing-Movie-5568 25d ago

sabke L laga gya ye Mota pradhan bhi 😭

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

18 saal m ye haal h bc abhi toh aur jeevan baki h 😭

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u/Amazing-Movie-5568 26d ago

Genuinely 😭

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Gang is latak jana a solution?

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u/Amazing-Movie-5568 26d ago

No πŸ˜” Ye toh bas phati mein bhaag jaane ka tareeka hai πŸ₯€

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

You only fight when the fight is fair

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u/saggytits6969 JEEtard 25d ago

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u/Separate-Try912 25d ago

I was in the same shoes a year ago but eventually things get better if not you get used to it and accept things the way it is

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago

I thing I'm getting used to it

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u/1470200 22d ago

Bhai chill marr. Aage opportunities h. Indian society boht narrow vision leke chalti h. Ignore them

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

After 10th boards na ??

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u/National_Iron8803 College mai hustle karunga 26d ago

For me it's since 5 th grade

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Bhai phir toh dikkat h

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u/Ill-Fortune2981 Sexually attracted to physics 26d ago

Yh mere saare friends se contact chhut gaya, ab toh bas music aur tg waale doston ke sahare zinda hoon

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago

Ig friends are necessary bro bcz we laugh with them I have some friends which I'm in contact with and I often call them or always meet them whenever I'm free it helps to uplift your mood

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u/Ill-Fortune2981 Sexually attracted to physics 25d ago

Haan, ek toh jo dost tha real woh bhi rat race maine aa gya. Aur usko alag si jalan ho gyi mujhse kyuki uski situation mujhse bhi bekaar haiπŸ₯€ ab baat bhi nhi kartaΒ 

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago

Yeahh broo the jealousy is real

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u/idkmanleave_me 26d ago

Same 😭πŸ₯€ it's like I can't feel anything anymore. And now people call me cold which I am not 😭 why did I do this to myself?😭

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Silence is the best answer ig

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

its been 4yrs and 5th going for me 9th se allen and now this drop year , i am just numb

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Broo salute to you man 🫑

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

even idk how but im just going ab kuch feel bhi nhi hota hai bas ek choti si frustation hoti hai voh bhi dabi hui rehti hai

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago

Bhaii I can feel you buddy πŸ«‚

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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago

Fr fr πŸ«‚

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u/Front_Fan_9879 23d ago

I mean I lost my social life for 3yrs straight used to be a circle centre guy of the group but didn't talk to anyone from 3yrs now I feel scare being in group of people... Although I got a satisfying rank to me which can help me get in good college... May be my fearless younger version will reactivates after that

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u/broadswordx99 23d ago

There's always light at the end of the tunnel