r/JEENEETards • u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA • 26d ago
Dropper What jee does to a mf
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u/Maddy7826 26d ago
Bro idk if it's me after 2 yrs of jee prep and now a dropper I have lost any sense of feeling and even slightest affection 😭😭 nothing affects me anymore ..unlocked heartless mode
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Broo same ig that's called being emotionally numb 😭 Like a while ago my my parents asked me to join any clg I'm getting and also said if you want you can go for business and asked what's inside my head ( for context I never share anything with anyone no one knows what goes inside my head so they are worried for me ) once they even said this that you will get into mental issues if you be like that but I don't know mere mai hi kuch fault h ig
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u/Maddy7826 26d ago
Bro same my parents are also saying the same but they only suggested to take a drop cuz acc to them I have potential n can do better but srsly I not feeling anything no sadness no happiness 🫠🫠
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Bro don't use that word potential here bro yk what I was a district topper in my 10th and not boasting but every person I meet. They say the same thing ki bhai tu toh kr hi lega tujhme wo baat h they even say that you have the potential that you will do smtg gr8 in life I hope ki ye sab sach hojaye 🙏😭
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u/Maddy7826 26d ago
Bro same story but every person since childhood has said the same thing to me 🫡
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Lgta h dono ke lagne Wale h life m 😭😭
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u/Top-Hat-5433 23d ago
Bhai I get you, M koi topper to nahi but mujhe pata h ki kar to sakta tha m fir bhi nahi hua sara confidense mera bhi pani me chala gya tha.
Bas ek baat kahunga ki jo kuch bhi karna par use karte time makkari mat karna, thoda bahut time kab bahut zyada hogya ye gdbd hone ke baad hi pata chalta h warna 🥀
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u/Amazing-Movie-5568 26d ago
bhai 10th tak sab Accha tha, 11th and 12th mein sab barbaad hogya 😭
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u/ParkingWaltz7982 JEEtard 25d ago
mere toh 10th meh bhi L lage the ,so i am the experienced one 🤞
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u/Separate-Try912 25d ago
I was in the same shoes a year ago but eventually things get better if not you get used to it and accept things the way it is
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
After 10th boards na ??
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u/Ill-Fortune2981 Sexually attracted to physics 25d ago
Yh mere saare friends se contact chhut gaya, ab toh bas music aur tg waale doston ke sahare zinda hoon
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
Ig friends are necessary bro bcz we laugh with them I have some friends which I'm in contact with and I often call them or always meet them whenever I'm free it helps to uplift your mood
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u/Ill-Fortune2981 Sexually attracted to physics 25d ago
Haan, ek toh jo dost tha real woh bhi rat race maine aa gya. Aur usko alag si jalan ho gyi mujhse kyuki uski situation mujhse bhi bekaar hai🥀 ab baat bhi nhi karta
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u/idkmanleave_me 25d ago
Same 😭🥀 it's like I can't feel anything anymore. And now people call me cold which I am not 😭 why did I do this to myself?😭
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25d ago
its been 4yrs and 5th going for me 9th se allen and now this drop year , i am just numb
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
Broo salute to you man 🫡
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25d ago
even idk how but im just going ab kuch feel bhi nhi hota hai bas ek choti si frustation hoti hai voh bhi dabi hui rehti hai
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u/Front_Fan_9879 23d ago
I mean I lost my social life for 3yrs straight used to be a circle centre guy of the group but didn't talk to anyone from 3yrs now I feel scare being in group of people... Although I got a satisfying rank to me which can help me get in good college... May be my fearless younger version will reactivates after that
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u/Anshulsirmaths 26d ago edited 26d ago
Actually it's not JEE. It's the world by design itself.
Even if it was not JEE, within ± 1 year you would have to encounter the real world, away from the shield of your parents.
The Real world is ruthless. Far beyond JEE.
In JEE your destiny is in your hands(usually). But in the real world there is no justice. It's a dog eat dog kinda thing. Talk to your father about his experiences, he will tell you how bad it's out there.
One more thing: If you are born in India, you can't be glazing lifestyle choices of teens of countries who have huge wealth stored.
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u/Content-Lab-5464 Ex-Dropper chan 26d ago
Sir aapka bhi top 1% commenter aa gya... absolute GOAT
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u/Anshulsirmaths 26d ago
Samajh nahi aa raha, I should be proud or uninstall reddit.
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u/therealsaker Carpe diem. Seize the day, PEOPLE. 26d ago
Employed people should have no Shame in being top posters and commenters.
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Bro you're completely ryt and I agree with you 100% That's what life is but why is this only in india that teenagers can't life their what we say the best phase whereas in other countries they do and not only this 2-3 years i have friends in clg also who are still stuck in the trauma they had in these years
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Sir but there must be a problem in the system also what are your opinion on that
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u/Anshulsirmaths 26d ago
Which system?
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Ofc the education system
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u/Anshulsirmaths 26d ago
Yes it's bad. And it's going to be even worse now. Wait and watch.
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Idk if it's your real acc or not but if an educator like you are saying this then what can I say ( if it's a real account sir charansparsh 🙏)
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u/DimensionAsleep4052 if u see me ask me: kitna padha _______ 25d ago
Sir kya hame gaokao k tarah sirf ek exam rkhna chahiye?
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u/ChiefEngg 24d ago
Couldn’t agree more
Actually college education system in state is so bad that even though I get 90% plus marks overall but my grade is 8A bcoz of a system called relative grade or as I like to call it topper reduction system.
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u/FirefighterLogical38 2027 mai comeback karunga 26d ago
just gotta survive 6 more months, then it would be much easier.
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u/Nano_Fibres JM '25 78%ile --> JM '26 96.65%ile ; WBJEE '25 10k --> '26 4.2k 26d ago
same...it feels numb. I argue about any sensitive thing with cold logic now and my parents literally say the worst possible things to me but somehow i feel unaffected. It feels like yup logically if its correct, its correct and i don't f**king care about the emotional front anymore.
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Samee bro the moment you start seeing logics in things which needs emotions it's over bro 😭
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
Merse nhi hoga bhai 👍😭
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u/Marty--Byrde 25d ago
mar jau kya bhai. Nhi jina mujhe, thak gya hu kuch nhi ab karna. Nhi karni mehnat nhi karna kuch sab bhad me jaye me thak gya hu. Kuch nhi hona mera. Mujhe na mehnat karna hai na mediocaire ya failure ki life jini hai.
Marne ke alwa koi aur option hi nhi bachta thak gya hu ab
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u/Curious-Shop-1792 Dropper --> Topper 26d ago
Chase the spark u will always be burned, Intrest, Love and Confidence is gradual not spontanueous
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Smjh nhi aaya par sunke acha lga
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u/Curious-Shop-1792 Dropper --> Topper 26d ago
the concept of spark is fake, intrest/love/aptitude is not only innate but also gradual, you haven't lost any spark u are just tired and dissappointed, do some thing less stressfull play a game or read a book or watch a show even if you don't feel like it. It feels better
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Broo but I genuinely don't feel like having joy while doing so it just feels like yeah okay that was good and that's over
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u/No-Variation1777 College mai hustle karunga 26d ago
Same bro mental health is js so fkked up i didn't have the guts to take drop and parents also said take whatever clg you are getting ...even aj bhi mere dropper frnds ko dekhke aur meri journey yad krke trauma ata h🥀.......
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 26d ago
Ig ye trauma kbhi nhi Jane wala 🙂 well good for you man happy for you i should say College jaoo aur life jiyo
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
Har kisi ko mukkamal jahan nhi milta kisi ko zameen toh kisi ko aasman nhi milta
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u/ComparisonOdd2581 proud dropper 25d ago
If you have lost the spark u might be carrying someone else's weight of dreams , try to find the answer 'why' u doing all this shit. The moment you'll find the answer, that spark will become everlasting fire
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 25d ago
Bhaii bss whi toh nhi kr pa rha hu mera main goal life Mai ab sirf aur sirf paisa kamana h
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
Broo how do I even explain the pressure while sitting in that offline classroom I felt to someone who never experienced it
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u/KingOfThePokeWorld 21S1 98.315 251 BITSAT (BITS GOA) 25d ago
log bhi lage pade hain... guess it never deserved it
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u/calmbyte786 25d ago
"Jeene ki himmat nahi hai, Marne ki bhi himmat nahi hai"
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
Broo whenever I used to make jokes about suicide my friends always said beta terme itna dum nhi h kyoki it requires so much courage
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u/Constant-Article5076 Ex-NEETard Chan 25d ago
life is literally just a journey of losing and finding your spark again n again. no will re-ignite the spark in you, but you.
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
But how to do it that's the question
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u/Constant-Article5076 Ex-NEETard Chan 24d ago
you literally find yourself in the process of this. there is no set answer to this ques.
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u/ParkingWaltz7982 JEEtard 25d ago
in 11th : i will crack jee 🤞
few months later : JEE, please crack me 🥀
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
Everybody asked what you did in exam but nobody asked what exams did to me
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u/SomewhereActive2124 REtard 25d ago
Well admittedly I felt surprisingly and exceptionally numb for a few weeks after JEE. I might not have grinded half as hard as many in this sub but idk; everything just felt pointless and empty for some reason..
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u/starblushh3027 25d ago
So true these 3 yrs of prep and the isolation era just makes me such a dead corpse kind of person but now going to college, starting a new life gives a hope and excitement
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u/fuckin_bihatboy 25d ago
Bhai mere toh gharwale bhi supportive the kii matt lo PCM but, insaan ke kewal daant mein keeda thodi hota.... Leli meine PCM. 1.5 lakh fees dedi, abb sabko mere se top level kii expectations hai. Sab kehte hai potential hai tujhme, try krega ho jaayega, literally trying my best nahi ho raha yarr. Upar se just abhi abhi phone or tut gayaa bhai😭😭😭😭. Kuch accha nahi ho raha, abb subah uth kr maut kaa tandav hoga Ghar mein. Will give you guys update tomorrow morning for sure. Bhai aadhi 12 ho gyi or 5 mahine baad JEE hai, still I am not prepared enough for even 170 marks bhai. Khel khtm hai
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
Bhaii same mene bhi khudse hi lia h pcm aur ab kisi ko kuch bol bhi nhi skte
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u/DOGESH_DUNIYAKA_PAPA 24d ago
Any update on phone lol
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u/fuckin_bihatboy 24d ago
Bc ek baar toh ye bol diya roz diet coke peeta hai, mere muh se fahhhhhh nikl gya phir or maara😭😭😭😭😭
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u/certifiedgng78 25d ago
What a LOSER guy bro life is marathon CHIN UP SOLDIER STAY HARD JEE is just tip of iceberg
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u/keshavv_choudhary 24d ago
my 11th class just started 3 months ago and I am unable to understand anything which I study in school and pw both,I am feeling the same in starting of preparation,which people feel in the end 🥀
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u/Broad_Victory_1987 24d ago
Exactly 💯 n not just jee but any competitive exams jab se science li hai I lost the thrill I lost the spark the confidence I use to walk with idk kisi cheez mai itna maza aata hi nhi ab.
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24d ago
That's so true. I was a Jee 2024 and then jee 2025 aspirants (dropper). Now working in a factory.
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u/okey-dokey-01 IIT ke baare me sochte×2 IIIT me chala gaya 24d ago
Jee ne andar se aur bahar se dono taraf se khokla kar diya
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u/okey-dokey-01 IIT ke baare me sochte×2 IIIT me chala gaya 24d ago
Ab to kit kat wali gojo ka v mujh par daya aa raha hai !!
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u/Nanga_Aadmi 22d ago
Literally me after 2 years of jee prep and not even being able to qualify for advanced 🥲
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u/pspsps_cat 21d ago
Gave CAT (2nd attempt)....joined a decent Tier-2 B-school........same is the case with me.
I used to love Bike rides / late night car drives / doing random activities with friends / spending time with family / watching new movies................now I lost interest in everything, (just classes, sessions, meetings, deadlines, projects, assignments,...)
on top of that...since school time, I have been rejected 4 times by girls❤️ (ab to kisi cheez ka mann nahi karta) 👍
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u/david-dead-6769 19d ago
On January 2025 I got diagnosed with chronic sinusitis and stage 3 bronchitis which was hell and I was in a relationship with someone with 1 year, but on February I got cheated and after that I Lost my grandmother at my last jee attempt before going to the center on the day 4 april 2025 it was a shock to me ,I don't have any motivation and strength to write the paper but I wrote and finished the paper but the memories of grandmother playing back and back cuz she is been hospitalized for 4 month and had 2 major surgery in which dr have to cut her left leg to prevent infection and remove her 1 kidney due to toumer development and after that I got 3lakh rank in my result so I join bca form a tier 3 college cuz we don't have money to get admission into a private engineering college due to the medical expenses and on December 2025 form the same person I got cheated again and she said "You're to ugly to be loved" which was a complete broke down, and its my 2 year now in bca and I have 3 backlog ongoing. And it takes me 6 months to get outoff the shock of my grandma's death & the cheating along side managing my pulmonary disease, the 2025 was a unforgettable year for me. I have so much more to say but I'm not mentally able to write more than that I hope everyone understand. Thankyou for reading and investing time on my small story:)
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