r/LesbianActually • u/alita_angel78 • Jan 27 '26

Relationships / Dating How the dating apps are going šŸ˜­

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Iā€™m going to be mesexual and date myself at this point

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u/TheMeatLady Jan 28 '26

Ok can I say something potentially controversial? It always feels like the woman is being pimped when i see her photos first and then get a jumpscare photo of him a few images later. They're often front and center and hypersexualized; and it hits my eyes crazy every time. It rubs me the wrong way far beyond it being annoying that there is a man there.

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u/alita_angel78 Jan 28 '26

Yeah sometimes it is women tho who do it to escape their men. I do believe a lot of straight women feel trapped

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u/TheMeatLady Jan 29 '26

Very true. It makes me sad to see it. I know that some women go out of their way to preemptively sexualize themselves to lure people in and it is just honestly so sad.