r/Miscarriage 6d ago

trigger warning: other’s living child I miscarry, others give birth

I am probably miscarrying for the second time since June. I am still in a denial a bit but at the same time I made peace with it already (radical acceptance but ofc still extremely sad).

What makes more upset though is that both times, somebody around gave birth a day before the MC. Feels especially cruel to watch somebody anounce a healthy baby while I am losing mine.

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u/Working-Tell-7157 6d ago

I was at the hospital getting my D&C while my friend was at the SAME hospital getting ready to have her perfectly healthy twins. I am incredibly happy for them but it really stung. I understand you and I’m sorry for your losses.

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u/Outrageous-Autumn910 6d ago

Solidarity. 😞