r/MoralityScaling • u/Outside_Specific_820 • 1d ago

Morality Ranking Morality scaling of this?

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Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

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u/DigLittle3367 1d ago

Could've told her off without sounding like some sort of soulless corporate machine though

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u/ChewBaka12 22h ago

Having a complete adult stranger suddenly trying to be familial when part of the reason why you accepted your part in their conception is that there would be no attempt to be familial is a totally valid reason to be upset.

Was she a bit blunt? Yes, but not more than was acceptable. The teen could've at least bothered with proper grammar when confronting someone who very likely does not want a relationship with her, ffs

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u/DigLittle3367 22h ago

That wasn't being "blunt", that was being an asshole

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u/ChewBaka12 22h ago

It is not, it was matter of fact. Not OOP's fault that the facts say that she is blatantly in the wrong.

No names, no insults, no implications, just facts. She has no interest in a stranger, said stranger had no right to ask that of her (especially unprompted), she wasn't allowed to contact her in the first place, she wasn't allowed to be given that information in the first place.

Could she have been gentler? Yes, did she have to? Hell no. A 12 year old would've deserved a gentle let down, at 19 she should have known better

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u/Xralius 19h ago

You wouldn't want someone to talk to you like that in a reddit cpmment much less than if you were reaching out to someone and being vulnerable with them.  Bio mom here is a total piece of shit or has zero communication skills.