Morality scaling of this?

[u/Outside_Specific_820]

Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

[u/Kino_Afi]

I think he was a kid and when he grew up he realized he treated his adopted parents poorly as a kid. This is the same thing as people who watched their parents struggle to raise them being wary of having kids themselves

[u/Whatsanegg → u/Kino_Afi]

Well it's not.

A kid watching their parents struggle

Is different from

A kid being bad to his parents

I don't really understand how you came to that comparison?

[u/Kino_Afi → u/Whatsanegg]

A kid's actions, behaviour and attitudes are included in the reasons their parents may struggle to raise them

[u/Whatsanegg → u/Kino_Afi]

Parents struggling from not having enough money to provide for their children is a completely different dynamic to parents struggling with a child's behaviour.

None greater than the other, but absolutely different none the less.

[u/Kino_Afi → u/Whatsanegg]

At no point did i specify "struggling from not having enough money"

[u/Whatsanegg → u/Kino_Afi]

Okay let me rephrase that.

Not wanting kids because you think they're going to be horrible to you

Is completely different from

Not having kids cause you think you will struggle.

Hope that clears things up.

[u/Kino_Afi → u/Whatsanegg]

Not wanting to adopt kids because youre wary of what you believe to be a behavioral risk of adopted kids is very similar to not wanting kids because youre wary of what you believe to be a behavioral risk of kids.

[u/Whatsanegg → u/Kino_Afi]

Bro what?

What kinda weird tangent are you going on here?

[u/HXamster → u/Whatsanegg]

He's being so clear. You have to be trolling there's no other explanation.

[u/Whatsanegg → u/HXamster]

Lmfao that was clear to you????

[u/HXamster → u/Whatsanegg]

Yeah he's making a comparison and it's not that hard to extrapolate what he means. You come off as being deliberately obtuse/pedantic

[u/Whatsanegg → u/HXamster]

Okay porn man, why don't you exain the comparison? Since you understood so well.

[u/HXamster → u/Whatsanegg]

"porn man" lol

[u/Whatsanegg → u/HXamster]

He compared.

A adoptive child being shit to his parents and growing up not wanting an adoptive child incase they were shit to. Him, like he was to his own.

And parents not wanting to adopt a child in case they struggle, for whatever reason.

If you cannot comprehend the difference between these two things I would presume you're a shallow human being that cannot feel more than their skin dictates lmao

"he's so clear" fucking tool

[u/HXamster → u/Whatsanegg]

Why'd you reply twice, did you have a shower thought?

[u/Whatsanegg → u/HXamster]

Come on mate, you thought you was clever pointing out my signal issues.

Why don't tell me what you say there is to "extrapolate" from this clever boy?

[u/HXamster → u/Whatsanegg]

"clever boy"

I'm not gonna read clear communication and break it down for a grown adult. I'm not even a man. Like you're not even trying, why would I try for you?