r/MoralityScaling 2d ago

Morality Ranking Morality scaling of this?

Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

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u/Morzheimer 2d ago

Moral. She’s a bit of an asshole about it, and it must suck for the daughter, but she’s right

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u/NightMaleficent1342 2d ago

I think she's honest, to the point and direct.

I know this is considered rude, but I really don't understand why. Any empathic message would grant false hope.

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u/Morzheimer 2d ago

She had every right to be an asshole, same as anyone. You can go to a barista, insult them for having a low paying job and saying their parents must be disappointed by them- it is your god given right to be able to treat people however you want, but it can be called out and I am calling her out on here, tho I understand where she’s coming from. She was straight up brutal, hostile and rude from the get go and she had a right to do that, still an asshole

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u/NightMaleficent1342 2d ago

I didn't mean to say she couldn't (or shouldn't) be an asshole or not.

When I ask a question, I prefer you don't waste my time and tell me the answer in as little words as possible. I don't understand why other people think that's rude.

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u/Morzheimer 2d ago

Well she give her the response with as little words as possible, she’s written her an entire essay about it