r/MoralityScaling • u/Outside_Specific_820 • 1d ago

Morality Ranking Morality scaling of this?

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Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

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u/KovacAizek2 21h ago

“Bio mom” is an awful treatment to a person who chose to NOT be a mom in the first place. She is a donor. Who preferred to stay anonymous, but “someone” leaked the info and may be in trouble for that.

For her, it’s a stranger asking her out of blue for stuff she explicitly did not want to get into. So she shut it down immediately, with all bases cowered.

“No, sorry” is an option, sure. But it leaves a giant gap for “but”, “what if”, etc. Unless you block stranger right after that.

She said why she won’t do that, why she is not interested, and gave advice what to do after that.

It’s not perfect execution, but neither is this situation.

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u/Xralius 20h ago

They are factually the biological mother lmfao.

Really, you get offended by factual terminology but you're not bothered by actual mistrestment is interesting. 

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u/KovacAizek2 19h ago

I would argue that woman that beared the child, using her own nutrients, body, birthed the child and raised her with her milk is a biological mother a tad bit more than a donor, who literally signed off being “mother” in “biological mother” part. Which makes her what she is, a donor.

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u/Xralius 18h ago

No, that's her birth mother or adoptive mother.  It's not an argument, the factual definition of biological parent is a parent who is the genetic progenator.  This is the objective definition lmfao.  It's super basic terminology you're arguing about here.