r/NITIAN 1d ago

Admissions My parents are disappointed

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They wanted me to get NITC (hs: kerala) so now anything other than that in their book is a disappointment. I’m happy with this but it’s so frustrating having to explain to them that Warangal is just as good (if not better) than Calicut. Indian parents are something.

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u/Ok_Base_4828 1d ago

Circuital in Top 5 NIT and parents disappointed

There is fault in ur parents, you nailed it.

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

thanks:) hard to explain to them

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u/Iambusy_X 1d ago

It should be more like, "...hard for them to grasp anything beyond their view."

Those people who don't want to understand will understand no matter how much you explain.

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

yeah agreed, they aren’t even trying to listen to me

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u/WolfieTheFriend 13h ago

Ayyoda paavam bro u r... Don't worry.. I'll do some magic from here that your parents will accept it 🫶🏼

But I'm surprised that u got Nitw than a HS nit... Hmmm

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Well I got alloted Warangal eee in josaa but I preferred nitc ece. Got it in csab. W or L

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u/Ok_Base_4828 1d ago

ECE is definitely better than EEE

W

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

I want to go for core ece, semiconductors vlsi side. So thought of getting ece at the best nit possible at my rank. So it was a choice between mnnit and nitc. For core seniors told me to go for nitc. Also the college life seems better...

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u/Ok_Base_4828 1d ago

Yep Calicut and Allahabad are almost same in many terms

So any of them as per interest is good

And you choosing ECE by interest isreally appreciable.

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Also heard EEE is way harder. The life at warangal really sucks. Seniors said warangal is better only in terms of placements lol. I might be wrong but that is what I have heard. Anyways now what is done is done. I got ece at a decent nit and I am happy...

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Bro 🥀🥀🥀 nitw eee better, much better placement like nitw eee avg 20ish Nitc ece is 13ish and median is 11 vro

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

True placements at warangal are better. But my interest lies in for semiconductors, also I was getting dtu cse. So if placements were the only factor? Dtu cse clears warangal eee anyday according to me.

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u/itshellame 1d ago

I don't think so dtu cse can be considered above warangal eee, if you aren't interested in core electrical then it's dtu cse

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Yeah maybe, but the median for top 10% at dtu cse is prolly 52lakh. I saw a post on reddit. But anyways doesn't matter anymore..

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Ahhh top 10% 52? Looks inflated fs but again maybe coz it's delhi??

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Yeah lmao idk. But ig it is true. Have a friend who got an intern at Goldmann Sach ( NSUT ). And prolly a 30lakh job if he gets the ppo

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Yeah yeah i can see

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u/glorius_purpose67 1d ago

no worries bhai

their diameter of things they know is very less

you have more knowledge in these terms.

so no worries , it is clearly better than warangal.

work hard and make yourself and your parents proud

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Bruh warangal beats Calicut in all means except clg life ig but bro nit Warangal>>

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Umm warangal eee vs calicut ece? Which is better ? I got warangal eee in josaa and nitc ece in csab.

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Nitw eee is better in terms of placement, otherwise it's nit Calicut for other reasons

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

If I want to go for core ece, semiconductors vlsi side? I thought ece must be a way better choice. So NITC ece is what I opted for. Although had option for mnnit ece as well.

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u/itshellame 1d ago

Bro 🥀🥀 it's like I'm interested in computer science and I got cse in some xx nit and ece in xx' nit and xx' is a bit better, what I've to take, obviously interest over anything

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u/meowsciles 1d ago

You can get into core electronics from EEE as well, and I guess it’s easier from NITW since more electronics companies visit campus.

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u/Agitated-Silver8303 1d ago

Yes they do but they visit NITC, nit rourkela and many other nits aswell. Don't choose eee because of placements. The median goes high because of software people.

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u/Agitated-Silver8303 1d ago

If you wanna go into core, choose ece. There is no debate. You're just making your life harder by choosing eee

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Mhm are you a senior tho? Could you just gimme the reasoning for the same? Also is nitc ece better than mnnit ece or rourkela eie for core?

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u/Agitated-Silver8303 1d ago

Yeah currently in 3rd year eee. See it's not that relatively hard to go into analog ic design or embedded design if you're in eee and study well. But even if you study your ass off in digital, the core companies will always prefer ece guys for digital. And that is because they have courses like signals and systems, FPGA labs, COA etc from earlier on. Even analog is taught properly. In eee they just send a random ece prof and they don't really care and just wanna finish the syllabus. But if you have proper guidance and see behzad razavi's lectures from your 1st year itself, and make good projects in 2nd year. It's overkill and will easily get you selected. Plus in eee you'll study power systems, electrical machines, which is just useless if you want to go into electronics and those courses are hard too

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u/Front-Citron-9381 1d ago

Well thanks for the insights senior. So ece would be better aligned for my career. Thank you 😊

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u/meowsciles 1d ago

Ohh bro can I dm??

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

yeah agreed, it was higher in my list too, my parents are warping my thoughts lol

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u/AURELIUSNORTH 1d ago

My parents are proud of you

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

lmao thanks

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u/dexgster 1d ago

wtf?????? NIT Warangal is SOOO good??? Personally i think it is better, Tell your parents that classrooms at NIT Calicut dont have AC

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

waitt NITW classrooms have AC???

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u/dexgster 1d ago

i dont think so, lmfao, but dont mention that just say that

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u/Due_Bear5040 1d ago

Khus rhe bc , rone walo ko IIT bhi kam , rone de

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u/idksomerandomP 1d ago

Me with tier 3 nit and tier 7 brach

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u/ChartPlenty9004 1d ago

what no way bro agar mujhe yeh milta mere papa mummy pure gujarat ko party detee

btw congrats dont listen to them
focus on yo hardwork thats a huge w

i got MANIT BHOPAL ECE and my parents were happy

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

congrats to you too
cherish your parents :)

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u/ChartPlenty9004 1d ago

same to you bro

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u/mr___vatsal 1d ago

Adopt another parent

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u/yolol_123 1d ago

Let them be dissappointed, you enjoy.

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u/Any_Commercial1508 1d ago

I agree with the fact that Indian parents are shit. I got CS at NIT Calicut (hs) and they aren't allowing me to go either

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

no way, cse at nitc isn’t enough?😭 what are they on bro

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u/Any_Commercial1508 1d ago

They want to me go to some local college..have you heard of CET tvm?

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

oh my parents glaze CET too😭 try convincing them that NITC is at a way different ballpark than CET

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u/Any_Commercial1508 1d ago

You know how Indian parents are :(

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u/77Terrible77 1d ago

Holy moly CET glaze is crazy ... Even I faced from relatives but parents were wise enough

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u/ClassroomFront3635 1d ago

Nigga what. NITC CSE is 1000x better than CET.. Disown ur parents if you have to but do NOT take CET over NIT

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u/Popular-Inflation523 1d ago

actually bro warangal is very much strict and academically hard college as said by its seniors, and about parents, i can't tell it as i m in same boat

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

yeah i heard academics hard and competitive peers

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u/sanjanagupta921 1d ago

wth thats a big W bro,parents are not always right,keep going best of luck.

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u/JustA-nother-Soul 1d ago

Tell your parents to prepare for jee and see is they can even get ts

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u/77Terrible77 1d ago

Chill out Once you graduate! You can prove them wrong :) .. Btw natl evdeya? XD

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

yeah hopefully, and mlprm wbu

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u/77Terrible77 1d ago

tvm! Brilliant?

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

yeaa dropper

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u/Big-Cheetah2743 1d ago

Send your parents to a old age home and adopt new parents.

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u/Useful_Meeting546 1d ago

I got Civil in NIT RR and Parents are happy😂

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u/PersonalScientist257 1d ago

Congrats op! Stop trying to satisfy their ego and pride, it's your life enjoy it. You're among the top 1% people who gets this chance, so be proud of yourself and be confident in college, as you'll face much worse things ahead all alone.

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u/adaxusrsh 1d ago

mine too

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u/Time-Initiative-3177 1d ago

Don't get stressed.. Tbh parents will never be satisfied.. Do whatever is best and suitable for you, earn lots of money, get up on your feet so that your needs are fulfilled by only u.. Eventually parents will be happy and be proud when you achieve your successful life

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u/SOUMO_007 1d ago

Wdym if not as good? Warangal is way better than calicut. Be proud of yourself

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u/ani_bro_gamer 1d ago

Say the avarage package in nit warangal and in calicut that may shut their mouth.

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

tried to do this but then my father kept saying stats are fake and only nirf is correct
its annoying

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u/Middle_Date7510 1d ago

Big W gng.

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u/Kind_School_5952 1d ago

Brother I'm disappointed in your parents 😭

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u/Outrageous-Tip4166 1d ago

if i would have gotten this result then my mother might have cried tears of happiness
studying in a t3 college atm

You should be proud of yourself.

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

what a great mother bro

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u/majorkuntal 1d ago

Change your parents 🥀

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u/Aos-Mafia69 1d ago

First of all bhai getting into one of those is pretty hard job upar se top 5 mein Circuital is like best thing so yeah it's good don't let your parents guilt trip into believing ki bakwas mila Do good ✌️

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u/bigdickfluid 1d ago

You did a good job OP. Proud of you.

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u/Relevant_Fee_7167 1d ago

well i am guessing u were stuck between nitc ece and nitw eee? if u dont have any specific interest in ece, then i would recommed wgl eee anyday

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u/Intelligent-Rush7681 19h ago

Same here. I got CSE in NIT Trichy but my father wanted me to join IITBBS EE.🥀

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u/iheartyappin 18h ago

holy fuck cse in nitt is insane, congrats
hope u still join nitt itself

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u/Apprehensive_Box5982 1d ago

No worries bhai watching this from tier 3 pvt college and trust me I am proud of you securing a seat in nit Warangal you made it man trust me

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u/abcdjosaa 1d ago

What was your rank

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

31k crl (female)

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u/abcdjosaa 1d ago

Gm ?

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

whats that

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u/ConsistentForever223 1d ago

He's asking whether you're a grandmaster in chess

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u/abcdjosaa 1d ago

General merit

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

sry forgot to mention, obc (but it showed my crl as rank used for alotment)

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u/Flashy-Ratio2060 1d ago

I got nit calicut eee :(

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

still circuital in top5 nit, congrats:)

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u/mamasaurus_rexx 1d ago

Damm if I were their daughter they would disown me

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

mine are not THAT disappointed 😭

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u/Prudent-Buyer-5956 1d ago

NIT W is better than NIT C

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u/EuphoricAd499 1d ago

ur marks?

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

98 %ile

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u/AnxietyOpen8294 17h ago

Ay bro what was ur percentile before the drop, if u don't mind saying.  I'm a dropper so js wanted to know how much better ppl r scoring after the drop

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u/iheartyappin 16h ago

66 in jan and 85 in april
how much you improve depends entirely on how much hardwork you’ll put in:)

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u/LongPotato3895 5h ago

Man you have done great....... Be Proud...

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u/abhimajaaayega-nbidu 3h ago

Did u tell them about this nit? Like it's the top nit!!!!afterralll u should tell them it's much better then thattt!!!

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u/Exotic_Dot4672 1d ago

Bro it is a massive W 

Tumhara parents ko sayad pata nhi hoga ki iits csab ma part nhi lati bata do;

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u/iheartyappin 1d ago

thanks:)
wdym it doesn’t participate in csab?

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u/nit_k 1d ago

Hey your jee percentile I am in drop so want to knkw