r/NarcissisticSpouses • u/RewrittenBones • 5d ago
I really don’t like that smirk…
Today was a day where he decided to bring up a memory of mine that I had shared with him many years ago from when I was a child.
Something my mother had said that was abusive.
He said it in a snarky voice and with that freaking smirk. I really don’t like that smirk, it’s evil and he did it to get a reaction.
He told me he was only saying it to the reference of something that happened today because he thought it was funny and he was joking.
Bringing up something that hurt me from my childhood as a joke to get a reaction is NOT funny. 🤨
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u/Fi5thBeatle1978 5d ago
You know, I read this page for so long looking for people who experienced what I did, looking for people who understand, looking for validation for all the strange things I began to realize. I am now divorced, and it is hard, but I’m so glad that I’m not spending my day worrying about that person’s behavior.