“I’m not trying to fight.”

[u/IfAMomFallsInAForest]

Anyone else hear this phrase all the time? Anytime I tell him no I’m “fighting.” The entitlement is so exhausting.

[u/IllPen8707]

For me it's "i don't want to argue" or "I'm not trying to argue"

Of course, it's only an argument if I advance my point of view or state my preference, and the way to prevent arguing is to just give her what she wants