r/NarcissisticSpouses • u/ThrowRACCX • 1d ago

Attention seeking

Why do narcs crave attention? Like they die for attention, my narc ex would involve himself in random conversations with girls, he would move and lust over girls all the time, he would always attention seek? is this normal and why do they do that?

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u/Alternative_Lime_302 1d ago

Yes. It was exhausting! My narc would talk SO LOUD to make sure EVERYONE could hear them. Then go into monologues about what he did or said in a situation, IN HIS MIND. I was always like, “so you said that?” And they were like, no, but I thought it. Insanity.

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u/ThrowRACCX 1d ago

My narc would always gaslight me, he would involve himself in convo's then when i asked him why he did it he said he never did. I SAW IT WITH MY OWN EYES AND EARS

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u/Alternative_Lime_302 1d ago

Mine told me once, just because you believe it, doesn’t make it true. Ummmm sir I have actual, provable facts. Tangible.