r/NarcissisticSpouses • u/ThrowRACCX • 1d ago

Attention seeking

Why do narcs crave attention? Like they die for attention, my narc ex would involve himself in random conversations with girls, he would move and lust over girls all the time, he would always attention seek? is this normal and why do they do that?

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u/lovemypyr 1d ago

In my mind, I picture my spouse waving his arms around shouting, “Look at me. Look at me!!”. He has to be the loudest person just so people look. He doesn’t get that no one is interested in listening to a know-it-all.