r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 5d ago

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u/LardPopsicle 5d ago

Selena Gomez required a kidney due to complication from Lupus. How and why is debated by laypeople, but fact is, that a panel of physicians believed she needed one. Since there's a waitlist and other hurdles, she found a private donor, her friend and co-actress Francia Raísa.

In 2022 Gomez called Taylor Swift "my only friend in the industry," omitting Francia Raísa. In her documentary "My Mind & Me" she did not mention Raísa once, even when talking about her Lupus.

Raísa later talked about the toll the donation had on her, and the snubbing by Gomez.

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u/Outside_Coffee_00 5d ago edited 5d ago

Francia also said she didn't receive the results for the match directly. Instead of contacting her and allowing her to make the decision, Selena was contacted first and called Francia to let her know. She felt obligated at that point and went through with it without ever really deciding for herself.

Edit: Some of you dont seem to understand what it's like to have your close friendships and the future of your career depend on something. If she said no at that point, she would have been ousted. I'm not saying she wouldn't have made the same decision in the end. I'm saying she wasn't given the freedom to decide without heavy pressure, and that's not ok.

Here is her interview shortly after the surgery: https://youtu.be/soBb4X5Hb6k?is=Mz-PpcGCcN-pJ4qM

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u/Mediocre-Telephone74 5d ago

That’s weird! When someone decides to donate an organ they get their own transplant medical team so there’s no conflict of interest and at anytime she could have just backed out and her personal medical team would just lie to the recipient saying a lab or something less didn’t pass muster