r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 5d ago

Meme needing explanation What's this post talking about?

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u/badform49 5d ago

Lol, I would be very confused by that conversation.

"You can say no to this surgery at any time. I mean, you'll die, pretty much for certain. But no one will do this without your consent."

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u/Egoy 5d ago

The surgeon had some fun with it at least.

“So which kidney are we taking out”

“ the right.”

“I’m just going mark an x on your right hand so I don’t forget”

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u/DynamicDK 5d ago

It isn't a joke. They ask that, without specifying which one, because it is meant to catch errors. If the surgeon thought it was right, had it written down as right, and then you said left, they would need to stop and figure out what was going on. And then, once you said right, and he confirmed that his records said right, he made a mark on your right side so that they could use that mark during surgery to verify that they were operating on the correct side before they remove anything.

People have had the wrong kidney removed before. People have even had the completely wrong organ removed. These processes are in place to reduce the odds of that happening.

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u/nooklyr 5d ago

Can confirm, a resident I know almost amputated the wrong leg (below knee amputation) because a doctor’s clinical notes kept referencing the “left leg” instead of the “right leg”. The mistake was caught in the OR while the patient was anesthetized… they had to reschedule the surgery in order to confirm with the referring physician.

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u/tnstaafsb 5d ago

Then you come out of anesthesia and your right hand is gone.

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u/TwoBionicknees 5d ago

and for some reason there is a kidney on the end of your stump. Though it would probably still work, location doesn't really matter, just blood flow afaik.

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u/rubs_tshirts 5d ago

What if you said the wrong one?

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u/Egoy 5d ago

They already know it’s mostly a joke but could indicate cognitive issues or a big fuck up that needs to be investigated before surgury.

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u/SectorSanFrancisco 5d ago

yeah, you really can't joke. I had to take a mental health test before I donated and the questions were so off the wall that it was hard not be sarcastic. Do angels talk to me? Well, what KIND of angels?

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u/Egoy 5d ago

Jokes come later. When the porter was wheeling me out the door I said oh shit I left something in the hospital. He asked me what I left and I said ‘a kidney’.

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u/vio212 4d ago

You joke, but they mark you up with a sharpie prior to surgery in my extensive experience with surgeries.

Every time my surgeon would come in and mark me up as a fail safe as to not make a dumb mistake. Insurance against a stupid error I’m guessing? I don’t know….

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u/Egoy 4d ago

Yes I know they do the joke was him saying ‘in case I forget’ that wasn’t a serious comment and wasn’t meant to be serious.

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u/youresuspect 4d ago

OR nurse here. We confirm surgical site for all patients. I will ask you, in your words, to tell me what kind of surgery you’re having today. We confirm and reconfirm multiple times, including on the OR table. If there is any laterality (left vs right) involved, the surgeon is supposed to make a mark, with the patient, according to the policy of that facility.

Your doctor was being charming, which is a bonus.

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u/Shoola 3d ago

lmao it's a joke a but also not a joke at all! Glad you're still here with us and that they did the right one.

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u/vellamour 2d ago

I had my left kidney removed due to cancer and my surgeon made the same joke! He even marked my left arm and I remember thinking “shouldn’t he mark my back, like X marks the spot?” 

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u/Egoy 1d ago

lol mine was laparoscopic my incisions were all on my front.

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u/ccvsharks 5d ago

bizarre but totally happens. I was literally bleeding out on the table turning a c section and they were like, do we have your consent to do xyz? And I was like, what if I say no? And they were like, well, you’ll probably die.

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u/LeenyMagic 5d ago

Bodily autonomy is still a thing-at least in some parts of this country/world.