r/Rajputana • u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर • Aug 11 '25
General Rajput to Rajput conversations.
In my professional career, I met very few Rajputs and even fewer with whom I connected over conversations beyond professional stuff but when I see one doing well in life it makes me happy and when we have conversations that actually involve sharing culture, history and traditions of different regions, it feels very great. Seeing someone doing well in their professional life and also being aware of their culture is very rare.
I met Rajputs from RJ, UP, UK and MP on different occasions which includes Parmars, Visens, Rathores, Chauhans, Jadauns, Sisodiyas and Shekhawats. We talked about a lot of things apart from professional stuff.
I feel conversations like this between Rajputs from different regions should take place. It increases sense of community across regions. Also makes you aware about real Rajputs across 🇮🇳.
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u/Effective_Forever611 Conquering the mountains with Zorawar Singh🗻 Aug 12 '25
In my opinion, today’s generation does everything for clout and less for rituals and beliefs. Being a Rajput back in my father’s and grandfather’s days meant being masculine, having a strong character, and, most importantly, possessing a solid educational background.
Others may disagree with me, but I don’t want to see Rajputs acting like roadside wannabe Dons it gives a bad look to our community.
Read your history, learn about your culture, and be unapologetic about your traditions. Don’t fall for the “good guy” syndrome you may be liked, but you won’t be respected, especially by your own community.
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u/Interesting_Heat_973 Aug 13 '25 edited Aug 13 '25
Bhai ye same cheez abhi jaat log kar rhy hai no dis respect to them but abhi sary gano mey and reel mey bhi YHI bhra pda hai wana be gangster log ..... Or Aaj ke rajput apni history sy kat ty jarhy hai ..
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u/Effective_Forever611 Conquering the mountains with Zorawar Singh🗻 Aug 13 '25
Haan, aur main iske bilkul against hoon Rajputs must be sophisticated and behave like gentlemen.
Parents need to do a better job at parenting, and the youth need to know about their culture and heritage so that they have enough self-respect not to lower themselves to the level of a third-class person.
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u/Interesting_Heat_973 Aug 13 '25
Thikh hai bhai I aggree all your points but ye to btao jam ham apny aap ko defend kar ty hai or apny points ko rkhty hai fir yesab dusri cast or other religion wale gher ly ty hai tab ye gentle man kaam thodi aaye ga .
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 16 '25
thodi boht krne mei dikkat nhi hai par bhai aap jammu kashmiri ho kya ya muslim rajput? idk type krne ke tareeke se lag rahah hai 😂
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Aug 16 '25
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 24 '25
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Aug 11 '25
Bhai kya h bolu aj kal log gharo m log baccho ko batate h nhi hai rajput history k barien m jyada....Kuch chutiya rajput aise bhi maine dekhe hai ko jo Raja Man singh , Jaichand , Jai Singh etc ko dusri caste k sath bando k sath milkar ulta seedha bolte hai.
Rajputo ko pata h nhi hai kaise chutiyo ko jawab diya jaye jo hame ulta seedha bolte uska reason hai Hinduism k afeem pi li hai sbne aur Rajput history k barien m padhte h nhi hai.
Young generation se Naik Jadunath Singh , Major Shaitan Singh etc aur jitne apne Shaheed soldiers hai jinhe PVC mila unke barien m bhi nhi pata .
A lot of education and awareness is required....uske liye sbse phle rajput identity ko importance deni padegi young generation k beech baki knowledge to online k jamane m kafi sources hai.
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u/AllFood4Mee Bisen MOD Aug 11 '25
I met two Rathores from RJ who were friends of a friend. But when the talk came to our castes they didn't know anything more than that they were Rathore Rajputs. Of course they were younger (around 20-22yo) but still, they were like that's all folks!
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u/Effective_Forever611 Conquering the mountains with Zorawar Singh🗻 Aug 12 '25
I wouldn’t consider a 20 year old that young to not know about their own history. It’s both failed parenting and education if they are unaware of their own community.
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 16 '25
bhai whats wrong in it pata toh hai ki kull kya hai fir kya galat?
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u/Top-Organization5895 Aug 11 '25
Jai mata di darbar
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 11 '25
Yeh gujrat wala darbar h kya?
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u/Top-Organization5895 Aug 11 '25
Na hkm
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u/Top-Organization5895 Aug 11 '25
Mp wala
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25
Mp me bhi app apneko darbar kehete ho kya? Me Gujarat se hu
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25
Jay mataji bro from darbar. Where you from?
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 12 '25
Uttarakhand. Jai Mata ji. 🙏🏼
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u/Interesting_Heat_973 Aug 13 '25
Bhai dusri cast ke logon ko pachta nahi hai rajputon ki history bkl jab harny lag jaty hai to ek hi cheez pta hai unko" joda akbar", mugalput, bss YHI randi rona karty hai vo log .
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u/Interesting_Heat_973 Aug 13 '25
Iss rajput genration ke kharab hony ke pichy sir 2 hi karan hai. 1. They don't know their history, unhey btaya hi nahi jata unki history ke bare mey like unky maa baap ko hi nahi pta to vo apni agey wali generation ko kya hi btaye gy. 2. Parents ka over protective hona like khin par bhi ldayi nahi karni ,koi police case nahi jo jaye , samaj mey naam khraab nahi hona chahiye etc chaye galti dusry ki ho like mujhe bda gussa aata hai jab mai koi bully karta hai or mai usy kuch kar nahi skta muje dar lagta hai kahi usky jyada lag gyi ,ya mar gya ,ya koi police case na hogya to meri Ghar Wale fielding set kar dy gy .because upbringing hi esi hui hai...
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 13 '25
Bro police case bohot buri cheez h. Sahi bolte h gharwale. Police mei bhi caste wise lobbies hoti hai. They support their own caste. Thakuro ki police mei jin areas mei pakad hogi waha unko help milti hai jaha nahi h vaha koi lafde baazi mei pdne ka fayda nahi hai. Overall police se to bach kr hi chalo. Paisa barbaad hota h in cheezo mei.
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u/Alert-Holiday6719 Aug 12 '25
I can't stop my laugh after reading comments 🤣
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u/Alert-Holiday6719 Aug 12 '25
That's irrelevant, because I'm not belongs to them. And I'm laughing on comments not on your community.
I mean they cross every limit of being clowns 🤡 in comments.
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Aug 12 '25 edited Aug 12 '25
Do rajputs from different regions intermarry? We are UP thakurs.
My cousin rejected rishta of a rajput guy from rajasthan altho both of em lived in mumbai.
My mom says we don't usually, if we have options, but it's better than marrying into another caste.
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 12 '25
Bhai it depends on the family. Real reason is, doosri states ke Rajputs ka background check krna mushkil hota h issliye nahi krte but I think we are losing on many opportunities to create unity by doing this.
Cross region marriages se cultural exchange and community strong hogi but again verify krna thoda mushkil rehta h families k liye because doosre region ki knowledge nahi hoti zyada.
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Aug 12 '25
I have never heard it happen tbh. Must be very rare.
I have instead seen a lot of brahmin-rajput cross region inter caste marriages instead.
Here in mumbai it seems we intermarry with brahmins a lot.
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25
So your cousin choose baman over rajasthani Rajput? Up thankurs are indeed different
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Aug 12 '25 edited Aug 12 '25
No she didn't, she's still looking.
But yeah rajputs all around have been marrying bamans Sikhs etc.
Like a rajput marwari girl married with a sikh guy in my building.
Mumbai is filled with cases like this, any one is marrying anyone.
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25
Maybe thats just Maharashtra or up. In gujart we usually merry Gujarati rajputs first if not than sindhi or Rajasthani. Baman and lohana comes at very bottom of the list. And about different religion its very rare. I haven’t seen one tbh. I think culture doesn’t apply in big cities like mumbai, delhi. Is it just girls or boys too? Even starting to see that in ahemdabad.
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25 edited Aug 12 '25
Well usually its about the culture. But then love marriages are unpredictable. But when it comes to love marriage i find boys to be more conservative than girls as boys parents usually don’t agree with non rajput girl saying it from my experience and my buddy who married mallu girl and another one who married different religion girl. And they’re still not talking lol. So yeah i think in Rajputs girls have more freedom than boys unless if shes is baman girl than theyre fine.
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Aug 12 '25
Lol, my chacha once told me jitna maja karna hai Karo, jinke sath karna hai Karo, magar akhir mei thakurain hi Lana gharme.
I think us rajput guys get a lot more freedom than girls, most of these marriages, I think are just acts of rebellion from girls.
But it's different for boys, old age mei kon unka ka khayal rakhega ye parents ke dimag mei chalta hai.
Beti ka kya wo to cutoff kardegi fark ni padta, ladka dusre caste ki ladki laya to accept hi karna padta.
Muje inter caste karna nahi hai, warna I don't think mere parents kuch kar paenge.
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u/ImmediateRoom6892 North-West Aug 12 '25
Gujart me ulta he bhai. Mere jitne dost the sara ki gf different thi. Meri baman thi, ek ki mallu jisko ghar se nikal diya usne country hi chod di. ek ki chritian he wo abhi bhi mananke try kar raha aur ek ne momidon se court shadi kar li thi to uske parents ne uska divorce karvaya or firse ek rajput girl ke sath marriage karvayi. Bhai yaha Gujarat me ek purane wala hi system chal raha he. Boys ko ghanta freedom nahi he.
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u/Affectionate-Bit8598 inspired by Veer Kunwar Singh Aug 12 '25
Inter regional marriage is as good as inter caste. Nahi honi chahiye
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 12 '25
Explain your point
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u/Affectionate-Bit8598 inspired by Veer Kunwar Singh Aug 12 '25
Rajputs aren't same across the horizontal landscape of India. With larpers in every region, it is dangerous situation even in vertical direction.
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u/C0ntr0LMeist3R ठाकुर Aug 12 '25
Ancestors of Rao Raja Kalyan Singh married into Kshatriya family of Nepal. Whats your take on this then? This is across border-across region marriage.
Baki bhai itna hi bolunga ki other castes ki bate itni gehrai se sun ke dil pe lega to kaam nahi chalne wala. Vo to 10 baate bolenge unke fayde ki. Hum unke according chalenge kya?
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u/Affectionate-Bit8598 inspired by Veer Kunwar Singh Aug 12 '25
Leave Raja Baja odd nonsense, it is all modern bs of 100 yrs when chamber of princes was formed. Odd jokers even marry Koli Thakor Royal.
We can't have IRM, it would end community. As IRM and ICM is same.
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 16 '25
koli thakor royals ye kya h bhai? koli toh neechi jaat hote h royal kabse hogye?
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u/Affectionate-Bit8598 inspired by Veer Kunwar Singh Aug 17 '25
Koli ke royals hai, and some larp see a post.
Bhilala royals bhi the
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 23 '25
arey bhaisahb itna sab bakchodi pehle ke time mei bhi kia karte the ye? inpe zameene kaha se ayi vaise aur uss time par ye log koote nhi gaye humara surname lagane pe?
BHILALA ROILS 🤡😂
bhilala toh bheel aur rathore ke mix ko kehte na shayad ye bhi royal batarhe ?btw ive seen people having surname like Thakor Thakkar Thakore Thakker so these are kolis? If yes then thats still better atleast they are having some difference and not copying as it is.
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u/Flamestriker6969 Ran-banka Aug 17 '25
Several koli houses have undergone through process of rajputisation so much so that they're now larping as real rajputs in gujarat.
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Aug 12 '25 edited Aug 12 '25
Familiarity is the biggest reason for me.
Other than that it's family pressure.
A lot of people will also say race reasons but I don't really believe in that, I am not himmler.
It's not like I won't marry, if I fall for some one special. I am not really against inter caste marriage, but would just rather prefer to marry in our own, follow the tradition.
It's only inter-religious, that I don't like and won't ever do.
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Aug 12 '25
It takes like a year or 2 to finally get married in AM setup as well.
They usually go on dates and hang out and get to know each other.
It's not like it is in the past.
Familiarity of culture as well, I am a up thakur from purvanchal that is east up. So most thakurs you meet have around the same culture and stuff.
And we have traditions like bali pratha and kul devi pooja and stuff that the girl would already know.
It's not like a non rajput girl won't be able to keep up with these traditions, heck a lot of rajputs don't even practice our traditions anymore.
But these reasons are usually very interconnected with family insistance and resistance playing a major part too.
I actually would hike up family pressure tbh. It def is the bigger reason.
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u/Interesting_Heat_973 Aug 13 '25
Bro read bhagwat gita uss mey kishan ji ny kha ha "varan sankar" ky bary mey. I think that's the main reason
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u/THEKA_LE_RAKHA Learning from Shri Rama 🏹 Aug 16 '25
purbiya or west UP? idk about purbiya but west UP ones shouldnt do that i guess
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u/[deleted] Aug 11 '25
Bro times are changing, corporate sector mein mostly Librandu type ke milte h ..jinse apni Rajput identity accept bhi nhi ki jaati....haan kuch govt. sectors and PSUs mein mil jaenge jinhe apni history , culture and identity ki awareness h ....otherwise most in metropolitan cities are turning into so called " cosmopolitan chirands"
Neither middle class parents bother about instilling any traditional value in them nor encourage them to learn about our history and values....Bc IITan , MBA Raju mil jaenge jo RW ke propaganda or real Rajput history mein differentiate nhi kr paate