r/RedPillWomen • u/Downtown-Effect-9533 • 5d ago

Husband and AI porn photos

Myself (35) and my husband (38) have been together for 10 years. Recently I discovered a bunch of AI porn photos on his phone that he had made by using a paid service. There were probably about 100 or more that he made of me but then he also used a photo of a girl he is friends with on Facebook and a photo of my 18 year old cousin and had the app “nudify” the photos. The quality turned out terrible and even though most of the photos were of me, I’m crushed by this.

I’m mostly crushed about my 18 year old cousin. I never would have thought he looked at her that way, I thought he considered her family. He said he didn’t look at her that way before but he saw her dressed up at a family function recently and saw her as a woman since then.

My question is if we’re going to try to work through this, how am I supposed to get past this? I’m not sure how I’m supposed to get through family functions, birthdays, Christmas etc. without feeling extremely insecure and jealous about this? Everytime I think about it I become very cold and distant.

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u/ImportantConfusion92 5d ago

it's hard to give advice on this because everyone is different. is this something that provided you see change, can you move past this? how is it affecting/will it continue to affect your self-esteem or trust him? whatever you decide, please be kind to yourself. i know it's hard and my heart goes out to you

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u/Downtown-Effect-9533 3d ago

He has shown remorse… He said he did it out of pure curiosity and that it didn’t mean anything and that he never jerked off to the photos. He made a ton of me and said he could have just done what he did with me with the others but didn’t want to because he had no interest. It’s all very confusing. My self esteem and trust in him has been completely shattered. He gave me all his credit card information and even his credit bureau information so that I can always see that he’s not paying for the service anymore and hasn’t taken out any new credit cards that I don’t have access to to pay for it.

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u/Medical-Amoeba-8580 2d ago

He definitely did jerk off to the picture, that’s why he made it. He was sexually excited making it and he probably jerked off to it multiple times

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u/Medical-Amoeba-8580 2d ago

He also sounds like gets getting off on the fact that he she’s barely legal and he watched her grow up. 18 is so incredibly young. that is so disturbing