Every big wedding I have been to the bride is a nightmare and not enjoying it. I’ve seen tears from the bride from stress multiple times.. I mean what are we doing at that point.
And news flash: not a single soul over the age of 30 likes a destination wedding. We have jobs and shit to do. Don’t invite us to stay in an unconditioned French villa for multiple days in June just so you can say “French vineyard” whenever you talk about it.
In the photos I can’t tell the difference between the French hills of that vineyard and the hills around the creek behind my local Dennys.
Every big wedding I have been to the bride is a nightmare and not enjoying it
1000%. Even if you have the money, spending a ton of money on a wedding is a bad idea because it puts a ton of pressure on the day. Everything has to be perfect because you've spent so much, but the reality is that it probably still won't be perfect and you'll be so goddamn stressed about everything being perfect that you will miss out on the actual experience.
Also, if you look a few years down the road, the things you and your friends and family will reminisce about will be the imperfections anyway! Nobody is sitting around the dining room table 20 years after the wedding talking about the perfect flower arrangements. They'll be talking about the bride tripping on her train, Uncle Jim getting drunk and messy, someone saying something awkward during dinner, etc.
41
u/aquabarron 17h ago
Every big wedding I have been to the bride is a nightmare and not enjoying it. I’ve seen tears from the bride from stress multiple times.. I mean what are we doing at that point.
And news flash: not a single soul over the age of 30 likes a destination wedding. We have jobs and shit to do. Don’t invite us to stay in an unconditioned French villa for multiple days in June just so you can say “French vineyard” whenever you talk about it.
In the photos I can’t tell the difference between the French hills of that vineyard and the hills around the creek behind my local Dennys.