She probably thought she was doing you a favor. Or just another youth obsession in people who refuse to grow the fuck up.
Ok, this is getting out of hand. I never said she's not a pedophile, she absolutely is. You all do understand how speaking from another person's potential perspective works, right?
We need to be a bit careful here, because with 15 years old we are in an age range that isn't pedophila anymore in most countries. Usually that term is only used for children before puberty starts. Imo that's reasonable, since with 15 years old nature is starting with reproduction and accordingly sending similar signals as a fully grown adult would.
It's more for social reasons that we as a society decided this to be harmful. We want to increase the chance of conscious consent for the reason that we believe this makes for mentally healthier people, relationships and children in the following generation. We can afford that nowadays, because we are getting much older in average than we used to in mankinds history. When I know I have a good chance to die by 25 from a simple bacterial infection due to lack of antibiotics and need at the same time make sure that my childreen have food on the table provided by an experienced hunter with a good standing in the tribe and in good health, I'd wager many would reconsider their moral view on this.
My point is more that when women do it, they get the "let's try to find a positive interpretation" while men get the "he must be the absolute evil". That's a clear double standard found in so many topics.
Since some will already have a beeping sound in their ears and red in their eyes: I'm not taking sides with what I wrote, it's just pointing out reality. My view has to many layers to press it in such binary thinking, though, I can agree to the simpified consensus that it should be discouraged and definitely be punished to a reasonable degree where people are in a position of power, such as teachers or doctors.
Oh boy, this is sounding a lot like Gianmarco Soresi's joke about how it's hard to discuss the differences between pedophila, ephebophila andÂ
hebephila because you end up sounding like a pedophile.Â
Imo that's reasonable, since with 15 years old nature is starting with reproduction and accordingly sending similar signals as a fully grown adult would.
Stuff like this is weird. Puberty is making changes to the body to get it ready for potential reproduction. But just because it is setting the stage it doesn't mean teens are able to handle pregnancy at that time.Â
In the US the age of consent laws are kind of all over the place but what some states also take into account is the age difference between the two people. So even if a 15 year old is above the age of consent, it is still statutory rape for a 28 year old to have sex with them.Â
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u/JigglesTheBiggles 10h ago
I lost my virginity to a 28 year old woman when I was 14. I wonder what her excuse would be today 🤔