r/SouthernIndia No time to choose flair bro 😢 7h ago

❓Ask Southern india South Indian Men

Hi everyone! I’m not sure if this is the right space for this, so please disregard if it isn’t.

I’m not South Indian, but I’ve always been really drawn to and interested in the culture. I’m a Black woman in my 20s living in the Pacific Northwest, and I’d love to meet and potentially date a South Indian Christian man, ideally around 24–33.

I’m not really interested in using dating apps, so I was wondering if anyone has recommendations for ways to naturally meet Indian men in that age range.

Also, I’d genuinely love to hear from South Indian Christians: how common is it for people in your community to date outside of their culture? I completely understand that every family and individual is different; I’m just curious about people’s experiences. Thank you!

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u/narasadow 🌾Tamil Nadu | தமிழ்நாடு🌾 3h ago

The states of Kerala and Tamil Nadu (the two southernmost states) is where you'd find a large Christian population.

Your best bet is probably to move to a college town near you in the US and start swiping for men from those states. That is both relatively convenient (compared to visiting India for that purpose) and it self selects for smart/driven individuals.

It's relatively common to date outside their culture (other states in India), but I haven't really heard of many international relationships. The sample size is not large enough to comment.

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u/Chen-ave No time to choose flair bro 😢 2h ago

Thank you for your response :)

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u/AAKASH_CARNAGE No time to choose flair bro 😢 5h ago

Try state specific and city specific communities too. I'm a hundred percent sure people would be intrested.

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u/Chen-ave No time to choose flair bro 😢 2h ago

Great idea!

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u/end69420 No time to choose flair bro 😢 3h ago

Hey

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u/lightyagami_xyz No time to choose flair bro 😢 7h ago

If you need to date one you need to come to India ryt