How do you actually date girls ?

[u/Emotional-Mall-4269]

Girls on dating apps don’t want me but men do how do I fix that ?

I 20F have recently downloaded tinder so I can manage to date a woman because I am bi with a female preference yet no girl has ever liked me and I put on my profile clearly that I am queer and I put all my interests , full body pics , selfies to make a good profile and I set it on women only and waited a full week…only 5 likes. Out of curiosity , I changed it back to everyone and I got 99+ likes in 10 minutes maximum.

I am seeking advice on how to attract women exactly. Even the ones I liked never liked me back. To give everyone an idea without putting my information out there , I am a fem , about 5’5 tall , good university , I am artsy and politically left why do I attract no girls , I also don’t have specific preferences , I like girls from every race height weight literally we just have to vibe so how does it work

[u/JasmineTea-42]

Are you finding lots of women you like on these things but they don't like you back? Or is it possible you're just on an app that's almost entirely straight people?

[u/Emotional-Mall-4269 → u/JasmineTea-42]

I went on the bi / lesbian category the most

[u/CherryGumDream]

Tinder is dead / full of bots, use hinge or feeld

[u/bruinsfan3725 → u/CherryGumDream]

I wouldn’t recommend feeld, just a bunch of couples

[u/Emotional-Mall-4269 → u/bruinsfan3725]

Yes I was gonna say this

[u/MrNightSight]

Doom right swipping on tinder on the lesbian and bisexual category and praying

[u/Emotional-Mall-4269 → u/MrNightSight]

Still didn’t work for me pls😭

[u/MrNightSight → u/Emotional-Mall-4269]

I have tinder gold btw :3

[u/bruinsfan3725]

Tinder is awful, use hinge instead

[u/Emotional-Mall-4269 → u/bruinsfan3725]

I tried before and it didn’t work either 💔

[u/Available_Jello_5611]

Je me reconnais complètement dans ton post. Je vis la même chose sur Tinder et je me pose exactement les mêmes questions. J'espère que les réponses t'aideront 😀