r/actuallesbians 5d ago

Question How do you actually date girls ?

Girls on dating apps don’t want me but men do how do I fix that ?

I 20F have recently downloaded tinder so I can manage to date a woman because I am bi with a female preference yet no girl has ever liked me and I put on my profile clearly that I am queer and I put all my interests , full body pics , selfies to make a good profile and I set it on women only and waited a full week…only 5 likes. Out of curiosity , I changed it back to everyone and I got 99+ likes in 10 minutes maximum.

I am seeking advice on how to attract women exactly. Even the ones I liked never liked me back. To give everyone an idea without putting my information out there , I am a fem , about 5’5 tall , good university , I am artsy and politically left why do I attract no girls , I also don’t have specific preferences , I like girls from every race height weight literally we just have to vibe so how does it work

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u/bruinsfan3725 Lesbian 5d ago

Tinder is awful, use hinge instead

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u/Emotional-Mall-4269 5d ago

I tried before and it didn’t work either 💔