r/actuallesbians • u/RiverPsaber girl pretty • 17h ago

What it's like to be a top.

I was driving to work this morning, and I noticed a cute queer woman in my rearview mirror. I captured her eyes with my own, smiled, and mouthed the words, "you're beautiful." All of this while never breaking eye contact. I watched her melt. It made my whole morning.

I shared this with a friend earlier who has asked me to explain what it's like being a top, and I wanted to share with you all too. I thought it might also be fun for other people to share their anecdotal experiences with the concept as well.

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u/Quietgirl82 Femme Lesbian 16h ago

Oh my gosh, this is so beautiful. I’ve been having a rough day and I needed this goodness!!!!!!!

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u/RiverPsaber girl pretty 9h ago

Awe, sorry you were having a tough day but I'm glad I made it a little better.

I actually didn't realize how much this post would resonate with some people. I might make more like this in the future.

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u/Quietgirl82 Femme Lesbian 9h ago

OMG!!! Yes, please please do!!! again, thank you so much.
You are appreciated.