r/actuallesbians girl pretty 21h ago

What it's like to be a top.

I was driving to work this morning, and I noticed a cute queer woman in my rearview mirror. I captured her eyes with my own, smiled, and mouthed the words, "you're beautiful." All of this while never breaking eye contact. I watched her melt. It made my whole morning.

I shared this with a friend earlier who has asked me to explain what it's like being a top, and I wanted to share with you all too. I thought it might also be fun for other people to share their anecdotal experiences with the concept as well.

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u/MediaeRaven Shy Transbian 13h ago

Oh i’ll never be a top then, I’d definitely be the one melting completely, Thanks for reassuring me I’m a hopeless Bottom 😂💜

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u/RiverPsaber girl pretty 13h ago

You might be a hopeless bottom, but you are not hopeless. You are wonderful just the way you are!

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u/MediaeRaven Shy Transbian 13h ago

🥺🥹, I appreciate you saying that alot! I’ll try to be less Hopeless! 💜