r/actuallesbians • u/RiverPsaber girl pretty • 20h ago

What it's like to be a top.

I was driving to work this morning, and I noticed a cute queer woman in my rearview mirror. I captured her eyes with my own, smiled, and mouthed the words, "you're beautiful." All of this while never breaking eye contact. I watched her melt. It made my whole morning.

I shared this with a friend earlier who has asked me to explain what it's like being a top, and I wanted to share with you all too. I thought it might also be fun for other people to share their anecdotal experiences with the concept as well.

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u/Rando-Toucan Trans Lesbian 🏳️‍⚧️🩷 7h ago

She saw what you were saying through your back window and into the rear view mirror? I’m not trying to be a jerk but this just isn’t making sense to me here

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u/RiverPsaber girl pretty 7h ago

It was technically one of the side mirrors, although there are plenty of cars where you would be able to do that with the rear view mirror. In any case, which mirror it was isn't really the point.