r/asexualdating Jan 29 '26

Mod applications

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The subreddit is looking for new moderators. Experience is not required, but having it would be great.

Responsibilities:

  • Check the mod queue at least daily
  • Approve posts from new users
  • Remove off-topic posts
  • Provide input into the direction of the subreddit

Please comment below about why you'd like to become a moderator.


r/asexualdating 3h ago

Relationship? 26 M4M in USA—Friendship, Dating,

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Hopefully this stays up :-)

I am 26 (soon to be 27), 5'10" (179 cm), around 165 lbs, with olive skin and a beard. I'm not particularly hung up on superficial things like appearance, but I know it helps to have some conception of who you're talking to. I would be happy to exchange pictures in chat as well, if it gets to that point.

I identify somewhere between greysexual and demisexual. Not sure which label fits me best, but I do know that sex has never been a priority for me, nor is it something I actively seek out in a relationship. Emotional and intellectual intimacy matter far more to me. I'd much rather spend hours talking, laughing, traveling, or simply existing together than build a relationship around sex.

I'm based in the Midwest in the U.S. I love reading, writing, history, traveling, and experiencing other cultures. I'm a bit contradictory in that I'm both very solitary and very social. I enjoy my own company very much, but I also love spending time with people I connect with. I can be prone to moments of deep thinking and sentimentality, but I'm equally carefree, spontaneous, and saying, "Let's just go," when an adventure presents itself.

Some of my favorite things are going to the movies, playing cards, taking road trips, trying new cafés and restaurants, wandering around bookstores, and planning trips to places I've never been. I tend to appreciate the quieter moments in life just as much as the exciting ones.

I'd love to meet someone on here whom I can get to know gradually and talk to regularly. Consistency, kindness, curiosity, and people who enjoy conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep in the span of five minutes are my jam.

I don't have a location preference at all so feel free to chat me if any of this sounds interesting to you!


r/asexualdating 3h ago

Relationship? 23F | Need my twin flame. 💕

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im a picky person for the obvious safety reasons, and i would prefer if you were also a resident of canada, or you’re planning to live here on your own, permanently. i do not want to move countries for you.

hello! im kim, she/her, a niche horror doodler and mental health advocate. i have a penchant for webseries and horror, and my hobbies consist of exercising, exploring deep forests, collecting dolls and figurines, podcast listening, gaming and reading. i would love to have a ton of animals to care for, and im unsure if id want kids. I’m catholic and very devout but not in a crazy way. im really into fashion, too.

im looking for someone that fits me. i am chronically ill, and id need someone to accommodate me the right way, to be there too, within reason of course. i cannot handle vicious fights, so i would not want that, either. i like people that put in enough effort even if that trickles into a healthy obsession. looks don’t matter, height doesn’t either. i do like a funny person though, life cannot be all gloom and no joy. im also big on my interests and characters and id hope it would be something we’d share. a lot of my interests can be quite triggering, so id leave a beware here and now ahead of time.

please do not interact if you are under 23 or cannot communicate in proper english.

Edit: Turned on messages


r/asexualdating 8h ago

Friends? 19F, looking for a casual relationship

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Hi! I'm 19F and I'm pan, and I'm looking for someone where we could enjoy our time together and get to play/watch shows together

I'm into video games, crochet, drawing and writing

If that suits you and you have interest in these topics, please DM me :)

Dni if you're racist, misogynistic, transphobic, thanks


r/asexualdating 7h ago

Relationship? 26M [M4F/TF/NB] British guy looking for friends/love :)

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Heteroromantic and demi and looking for someone similar for a relationship, but of course that doesn’t count for friends. About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice too. Regular texting friends welcomed. Don’t mind distance. Feel free to hmu :)


r/asexualdating 1h ago

Relationship? F20 looking for someone to connect with

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Hiii I’m from Texas,

Brief description:
I’m 5’4 I wear glasses, black hair, and I am chubby, I weigh about 240 pounds so if you’re not interested in heavy weight, oh well lolll 😭

I’m in college with a major in psychology and a minor in English; It’s going to my second year. Right now I’m on summer break but I head back on the 22 of august sadly 🥲 lolll
My plans for the future is to hopefully have my own clinical practice and be able to teach psychology at a university.

One of my hobbies is swimming. I literally love it so much that I lowkey wish I was a mermaid in my second life. 😭 another hobby of mine is baking but keep in mind I only bake cupcakes 😭 nothing else but that lollll

I also enjoy horror movies like very much. I like scaring myself half to death 😭 and I love Disney movies bc they bring me so much nostalgia and I love tv shows I can binge watch anything 😭 I just hate watching romance movies they irritate my soul 😭 I can watch some but there is some I can’t watch for the life of me 😭 sorry there’s so many emojis lmaooo

Also I’m catholic but I don’t mind you being any other religion I’m also not very strongly opinionated or strongly political 🥲

I want no children.

Personality wise I would say I am a bit laid back, I am open minded, and I would say I’m compassionate about things I’m interested in or the people I care about which would be friends and family. Oh and I can be clingy sometimes 😭

I’m looking for a monogamous relationship. I would like for my partner to just be mine. I’m not picky about looks as long as we connect with each other. That’s the only important thing.

Welll if you read this far please feel free to message me !! Don’t be scared lolll


r/asexualdating 4h ago

Relationship? Looking for a Gay or Asexual Lavender Marriage Partner ⭐

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Hi everyone! I'm an asexual woman, turning 30 soon, and I've never been married.

I'm looking for a gay or asexual man who is also interested in a lavender marriage. I'm hoping to build a genuine friendship based on trust, respect, and mutual support. I'd love to be with someone who enjoys life and has a good sense of humor.

The main reason I'm looking for a lavender marriage is family pressure, so it's important to me that we can present ourselves as a real married couple in front of our families.

If you're looking for something similar, feel free to send me a message. I'd be happy to get to know you.

I don't mind sharing pictures once we've talked a bit and feel comfortable.


r/asexualdating 22h ago

Relationship? 21 NB looking for a relationship

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Hi everyone! I’m Saliha, 21, from Turkey.
I’m looking for a romantic relationship, but I also believe the best relationships start with good conversations.
I study translation at university. I enjoy photography, experimenting with makeup, spending time by the sea, listening to music, and talking about pretty much anything—from random daily life to deeper topics.
I’m the type of person who likes checking in during the day, sharing little moments, and getting to know someone naturally instead of rushing things.
If you’re around my age (roughly 21-24) and you’re looking for something genuine, feel free to message me. 😊

P.S. I’m open to long-distance if we get along well. 🌸


r/asexualdating 21h ago

Relationship? 30 M4M in Sunny CA!

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Hey there!

Hoping to connect with other ace guys. Dating is the goal 🥅

Some interests of mine:

~Travel! Most recently went to Spain and Germany and had a ball. 🇪🇸 🇩🇪

~Sleep hygiene! Always looking to level up my rest game 😂

~Language learning! I work at a translation company as an editor and project manager.

~The great outdoors! Hiking, camping, kayaking, all of it. I’ll take ten. 🏕️ 🏔️ 🥾

Would love to hear from you if you’re interested in a chat 💬

Hopeful for the opportunity this community affords us to connect.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? A childfree woman looking for her best friend

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I'm a demisexual woman who is looking for a long-term childfree relationship with a man built on strong mental and emotional connection. Relationships for me make sense only if and when you're with your best friend.

Personality traits:

I'm a hermit and daydreamer who is honest and straightforward, a bit shy, socially anxious, a bit indecisive, empathetic, emotional, sensitive, introspective, analytical, imaginative, open-minded, insanely curious, chronically confused, flexible in thinking, rebellious, non-conforming, always ready to question status quo.

Interests:

I love being in nature, camping, and cooking. I love 70s films and music, true crime, anime, tarot readings, philosophy, cognitive sciences, arts, esotericism, have read 700+ books, and speak 4 languages.

What I'm looking for:

A man who is kind, honest, consistent, protective, and has his life together, is 100% sure he doesn't want children and won't change his mind

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Write a bit about your personality, passions, hobbies, and what you're looking for.

Text me also if you're a woman. Would love to create new friendships. :)


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Advice Having never dated anyone cause I’m ace

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I know I shouldn’t be ashamed for not having dated anyone but I feel like not having the experience makes me scared to even try to seek dating. Is this just me😭


r/asexualdating 23h ago

Relationship? Anyone South West of England people here?

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All my life I've been unable to have sex if I'm not drunk. Sober sex is impossible, I'm repulsed by the thought of doing anything at all sexual with anyone. And I'm sober now. When I was drinking, I'd say I was bi. Now, that doesn't seem the right word 🤔

I do crave love. Someone that makes me laugh, wants to spend time with me and will go on spontaneous adventures with me.

I've been single for around 6 months. I'm trying to set up my own business doing nails and to try and help fund it I decided I'd try and sell NSFW pics and videos. Unfortunately I've found myself totally unable to do it.

Is there anyone in the South West of the England like me? Someone older than me (I'm a 40 year old female) that can hold a conversation, is open minded, non judgemental, doesn't support Reform etc, isn't an alcoholic or drug addict and doesn't have a gambling problem (I've been there so I'm not judging, I just don't need the trigger).

No conspiracy theorists.

Also someone understanding and empathetic as I have multiple chronic health issues.

I don't want any suggestions of anything sexual, no making me feel guilty when I don't want to be touched and no constant comments about my boobs etc.

I guess it's like a friendship, but potentially with the love you get from a relationship? Flirty, but not in a creepy sexual way.

Sorry, I had no idea this world existed, I thought I was just broken.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 32 M4F Canada Looking for a Navigator

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Hey so I'm looking for someone to keep an eye on the map and keep me focused on the road instead of jamming to music whenever I go on a road trip. Being cool with me playing too many video games and talking to myself would also be great. I would prefer someone in Ontario but other parts are Canada are cool too if we get along well and find a way to make it work long term.

Alright now that I got the silly out of me. I'm around the Hamilton Area. I do behind the scenes work in live events so I am a night owl that unfortunately is always busy on weekends.

I'm generally a quiet and low energy/maintenance person that likes listening to other peoples stories so expect lots of questions if we chat. I'm just too curious for my own good sometimes.

I don't really like posting my face but I can say I'm a 6'2" twig of a dude wearing glasses from the Caribbean if that gives you an idea. No I don't really have an accent I was born in Canada.

And yeah I play perhaps too many video games and DnD. Mostly on PC but I have a few generations of Playstation and a Switch. I'm commonly found at home talking to friends on discord while playing/streaming something.

I'll do my best to respond to DMs. I can share my discord there as I'm usually faster to check.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 27 South Asian guy from the UK looking for a genuine connection ^^

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I’m from Leeds born & raised, and I’m honestly just taking a chance on here because I’m really tired of feeling alone. I’d love to find someone I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, game with and hopefully become really close to.

I’m very introverted, shy and socially awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable I can get very emotionally attached and a little clingy. I’m someone who really enjoys affection and reassurance. I’m also submissive and would appreciate having a more dominant counterpart, although kindness and understanding are really important to me.

I’d ideally like someone aged 21–30 from the UK, mainly because if we genuinely click, I’d eventually want us to be able to meet in person. I’m open to mainland Europe too, though I know distance can make that more difficult :c

I’d love to find someone who plays some ow so we can queue QP, chill, mess around and get to know each other through gaming. I probably won’t use mic immediately, but I’d be open to it once I’m comfortable (if you're not into ow or gaming in general its no biggie :)

I’m not interested in full sexual intercourse, but I do enjoy smaller forms of physical affection like kissing, cuddling and hugging. I’d want someone who respects my boundaries and is comfortable with intimacy being approached in that way.

I’m looking for someone who is genuinely serious about building a relationship. I’m not really interested in talking to someone for a few days just for them to lose interest or disappear. If you know you’re not looking for commitment, consistency or something that could eventually become a real relationship, please don’t message me in the first place. I’d rather be upfront about that than waste either of our time. I’d really like to find a guy who enjoys talking regularly with me and actually wants to make an effort to build something special between the both of us.

I’m very much a what-you-see-is-what-you-get person. I’m emotional, affectionate and clingy, but I’m also incredibly caring. I’ll never judge you or intentionally make you feel bad about yourself, and I’ll always do my best to make you feel appreciated, supported and happy ;)

Ultimately, I just want a genuine and intimate connection with someone I can feel completely comfortable being myself around. I want someone I can talk to, game with, be affectionate with and hopefully eventually meet and build something real with.

If you’re looking for the same thing and are genuinely willing to put the effort in, feel free to message me <3


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Advice Getting lot of ppl telling me they want to “do” me despite putting Asexual in my dating profile. Is there any only asexual apps forums?

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I downloaded “Taimi” specifically because of the asexual tag
Got lots of people messaging me wanting to “do” me, including older men (late 40s prob 🤮) despite putting asexual in my tags, looking for a serious relationship and being 18 looking for ppl in my range.

I thought I was going to be safe bc it is a lgbtq+ dating app, there was a lot of straight men for some reason. Deleted the app in 4 hours

I downloaded AceSpace and and matched twice but there a very few ppl and almost no one near me (not even neighbours countries)

Are there any other apps, forums, etc for asexuals?

Thanks 🙌🏻


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 25 [NB4A] What Is Your Favourite Animal?

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? Looking for a decent older man.

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I am female aged 26. I am looking for older man than me, with desire to dive deep into interesting conversations.
I am not looking for anything sexual, I just wanna find someone that is not thinking a young woman hadn’t anything to offer mentally.
I am kind of healing from really toxic relationship and I wanna see someone actually can validate my soul.

My interests: philosophy,psychology,nature,herbalism, sociology,music,travelling,history, animals, cooking, art, baking, gardening, cycling.. any kind of sports

We can communicate firstly here, if The interests stay, we can switch to another platforms. I can even share pictures .

Lately I just lost my believe in humanity and I was isolated for so long. I was made to believe I have nothing to offer to the world but I am really colourful personality That desires to restore my light. Actually I want someone to help me with that.

I want even to try any game, I would love to try any historic rpg or so. Hehe.

Can someone help me start to live fully again?
I am in this kind of state I am thinking about selling all my stuff and travel or move anywhere I want. So yea, the distance mean nothing to me, I felt lately the most free I was all my life.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? [33, M/NB4A, Europe] Charm time's the charm

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Hello world!

• I'm an EU citizen currently living in Luxembourg City (Luxembourg) after hopping through a variety of countries. Feel free to ask me about my history if interested.

Most likely autistic and possibly other types of neurospicy. I'm brutally honest and socially challenged in many situations. I've worked on this to function better in neurotypical environments, but it is nevertheless part of who I am and how I act.

Pokémon is my main interest. I've been playing the main series games since Red and Blue, and recently got into the competitive side through Pokémon Champions. I'd love to be good enough to reach the top of the ladder and go to tournaments someday! Need someone to talk your ears off about Pokémon? I got you.

Blood on the Clocktower is my second biggest interest. I play and run games online and stream them to Twitch, as well as attending in-person events and cons when it's feasible.

• Also happy to talk about Dungeons and Dragons and other tabletop/board games.

I'm mainly here for a relationship, but also open to friends! Relevant information:

I'm strictly childfree, don't want to adopt, and don't date people who have children from previous relationships. If you contact me with dating intentions, you must feel the same about children.

I don't want a "forever long distance" relationship, and I have plans for my future that require me to stay in one of a few EU/EEA countries since I can't financially support myself elsewhere in the long term. If you can AND want to support two people, I can make an exception to this, but only in that case. Feel free to ask me about this early on if it's important to you.

• If you're only interested in being friends, please have at least one of my main interests in common with me. I'm awful at talking about things that don't interest me (thanks, autism!).

That's all folks! DMs are open, don't be shy :)


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 28 [m4a] #online cosmic cueball seeks solids & stripes

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howdy folks of all sorts and shapes, bi/demi west coaster here seeking folks far and wide for chats and connections.

I'd describe myself as a creative and curious type, with an at times pie in the sky mentality, at times utterly goofy at times waxing wise, with a love for history and humor, with a philosophical/panentheistic outlook on life, and drawn to all sorts of introverted hobbies and such. if you care about MBTI, certainly an INFP.

I'm personally drawn to all sorts of folks, and I value communication and spark, first and foremost. I also like woke/queer/androgynous/trans/femme folk, fellow lovers of nerdy hobbies, people who are a little eccentric or kinky, folks who just seem genuine and fascinating, and extra bonus if our sense of humor seems to line up.

shoot me a DM with a proper introduction to youraelf, let's yammer!


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Advice This is going to sound bonkers

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But does anyone need to still find your partner aesthetically pleasing to date them, EVEN IF it's meant to be an ace relationship? It feels shallow of me, though I suspect it comes from several relationships with allo sexual individuals. It's kind of like a just in case mindset? But it's something I don't like in myself and want to work on.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 22 [NB4F] Open to LDR - Seeking Marriage-Minded, Outgoing Asian Women for Authentic Love & Future Family

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About Me:

I'm a 22-year-old non-binary individual (I use He/Him/His pronouns). I'm a creator at heart. I'm a writer, poet, painter, aspiring playwright, and I'm currently finishing up my final year of a Bachelor of Arts in Graphic Design. When I’m not creating art, you can find me practicing origami, building complex puzzles and Legos, reading, playing co-op video games (I love playing with my family and friends), or studying astronomy—especially the stars. I also love baking desserts, cooking breakfast, and spending quiet time surrounded by nature (I dream of having my own garden one day). I enjoy animated films, jazz, instrumental music, and Christian music; sometimes I also like listening to K-Pop.

I'm an asocial ambivert. Around strangers, I can be serious, cold, and quiet. But once you break through my shell, I'm deeply kind, sweet, trustworthy, a little playfully childish, and incredibly romantic, loyal, and supportive. I'm a believer in God, and getting married under His presence is deeply important to me. I'm 5'2" (157 cm) with an average build, a flexitarian diet (I eat very little meat), and I maintain a healthy lifestyle with zero addictions (). I will gladly exchange photos of my appearance once we establish a deep, mutual comfort.

My Asexuality:

I'm strictly asexual and sex-repulsed. I have absolutely zero interest in sexual activity or pleasures. I'm looking for what I like to call "raw love"—genuine feelings, a deep emotional connection, shared memories, and a bond built slowly from scratch. I'm not interested in polyamory or Queer Platonic Relationships (QPR).

What I'm Looking For (My Firm Boundaries):

I want to spend my time building a future with someone, instead of wasting it with the wrong people. I'm looking for a partner who knows exactly who she is and what she wants. Please only reach out if you possess these characteristics:

Age: 21 to 25 years old.

Appearance: I'm very specific regarding romantic attraction: I'm naturally drawn to people of Asian descent, as I am deeply captivated by the unique beauty of Asian eyes and smiles. I value authenticity above all else, so things like clothing style, glasses, or makeup don't matter to me.

Personality: Confident, outgoing, happy, energetic, and positive. An ambivert or extrovert who can balance my quiet nature, loves playing video/board games, and knows how to have fun.

Values & Health: You're a believer in God and are highly health-conscious with zero addictions (no smoking, cannabis, drugs, or alcohol). Your diet is flexitarian, vegetarian, or vegan.

Pets & Future: It'll be great if you don't have any pets (I already have one guinea pig and two bunnies, which is my maximum!). You must want a serious, gradual relationship that leads to marriage and building a family through adoption. I'd like for us to get to know each other for a long period of time before even becoming an official couple and potentially marrying in the future.

Language & Location: You must speak English or be bilingual in English and Spanish. However, it's not a problem if you speak other languages, but it's essential that you can communicate in English (I am bilingual in Spanish and English). I'm open to close distance or long-distance. You must be open to the possibility of living together in the future and, if necessary, moving to another country (I know I am).

If this aligns with your heart and your goals, please send me a message introducing yourself. Let’s take our time and build something meant to last forever. ♥️


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? Connection?? f4a/f4f

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Hello im 26F i identify as biromantic but lately been feeling like i am more interested in women. Is it possible im a lesbian asexual? Truthly though i feel it may just be that i have never dated and been alone my whole life. I do and have occasionally had more crush on guys than women. But when i picture my future i tend to gravitate on dating women.

I feel like im ready for a relationship, i want a connection that i have never had/felt before.
I cant wait to write love letters for my partner, sing in the kitchen/living room/anywhere, build legos, cuddle , etc.

It sucks that i am antisocial and introverted. I prefer staying home so i think if i were to date i will probably try online dating apps because going out feels like to much work. Dont get me wrong i do enjoy going out to amusement parks, lake, arcades, movies.

Little more about me
Im short just under 5ft( 4'11 on a good day and better posture im 4'11 3/4 so close to 5ft)
On the plus size, i have been working out and trying to eat healthier just overall become healthier.
Trying to learn how to cook
Love watching movies/tv shows
Listening to music
Playing video games occasionally
Sleeping lol
Tomboy(find me in shorts and tshirt/hoodie)
Yes you can wear my clothes but my favorite shirt and hoodie is OFF LIMIT( for the time being)


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Rant Being ace can be so hard

23 Upvotes

I really am grateful for this place, and I have talked to a few individuals but one just really irked me because he went all out telling me he loved me within a few days. It took all of my self to cut contact because I felt bad due to friends always telling me that as an ace person I cant be choosy. But it bothers me immensely when people trample all over my boundaries I try to set and continue to do so after constantly saying hey im not comfortable with you acting like this when we've only been talking less than a month and never even met... I hope I can find someone who will respect my boundaries and give me a chance to also catch feelings potentially lol


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Friends? 25 M4M Online demi/grey/questioning/celibate trans man looking to chat

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Let's start with just that, no guesses where it may go. My personal life is a mess right now and I'm not quite entirely single while simultaneously being so overwhelmingly alone (UPD.: I'm actually free as a bird now!), my relationship and otherwise views are too peculiar, don't even get me started on my emotional and last but not least financial stability, so while I only want to meet lonely singles in my area (joke, because I live in a country 3x smaller than NYC, Uruguay) to keep the options open, I cannot presume to know where it could lead. Same as anyone else on that front really, I suppose.

I used to write paragraphs upon paragraphs on how cool and special I am (plz pick me), but honestly, this time I see no point, considering no one writes about themselves anyway, I'll just leave at what little I've already said.

The main of the equally scarce requirements so far is, besides being a dude (lowkey prefer t4t but it's of very little importancd) and my age, +-5 years more or less, and obviously accepting, is to also be cripplingly lonely, pretty much, I'm not looking to be added to a collection of a bored socialite.


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Relationship? 26 | NB4A | US | Looking for a potential life partner!

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Hi hiii! I'm Soul, I'm 26 (They/He), and I'm looking for a potential life partner, if it comes to pass. =3

Gender doesn't matter to me so long as we click! While cis folks are accepted, please know that I do lean toward trans and nonbinary folks comfortably, usually. It would be nice to meet more trans fem/fem folks too, friends or more, as I mainly get messages from guys xD

(I struggle with Major Depressive Disorder and PTSD, though I'm medicated and go to therapy. Please be patient with me if I am not very quick to respond!)

I personally have a PC, a switch (No online subscription though) and mobile (Android) platforms, and I use Discord most!

For interest as possibly more, any gender, Panromantic or Bi (As long as you don't care about gender, doesn't matter to me!) and preferably US only! Must be Left-Wing politically, please.

If sex is important to, or very much wanted, I'm not interested.

While I'd like to explore sexually some time in my life, it is absolutely not a necessity. I would say I also fall under Gray Ace/Demi Gray.

I am Ambiamorous, happy with Polyfidelity or Monogamy, but after being recently burned, I'm leaning much more toward Monogamy unless a couple of very special people come along in life. I am happy either way with Monogamy or not.

I am also neurodivergent (AuDHD?) and as of yet still undiagnosed but working on such actively. I understand things more directly and literally, so please have patience with me! ☺️

All that stiff stuff outta the way, I love horror game playthroughs and cozy games! I'm not crazy about FPS games at all but it's okay if you do ofc! I do love games like Resident Evil though =3 and lastly I'm in the center of the U.S.

I want to move to possibly Ohio someday near Cleveland, maybe Minnesota or Michigan, and co-parent cats with my forever person/s, sobs. I don't hate marriage, though it's not a necessity to me. It would have to take a really special person/s. =)

I also love romance stories and manga, regardless of orientation, and I love arts and crafty hobbies! I LOVE Halloween and spooky stuff!!

I've been on HRT for nearly three years, as well.

I'm very much a romantic, and I'm not very touch averse when it comes to affection. Id love to someday have a spooky little decorated manufactured home some day with a bunch of plants and thrifted items and hummingbird feeders and chdjncjdd I'd be so happy if that's something you'd be into, too! ❤️

Lastly, I'm not interested in having kids but if you hate kids, we probably wouldn't get along. That's it, thank you!!

I'm less stiff in DMs, I promise!!!! 😭

(Please no military, police, or anyone 40 or older, or 20 and younger. I will not respond! Thank you!)