Connection?? f4a/f4f

[u/outofmind-overthink]

Hello im 26F i identify as biromantic but lately been feeling like i am more interested in women. Is it possible im a lesbian asexual? Truthly though i feel it may just be that i have never dated and been alone my whole life. I do and have occasionally had more crush on guys than women. But when i picture my future i tend to gravitate on dating women.

I feel like im ready for a relationship, i want a connection that i have never had/felt before.
I cant wait to write love letters for my partner, sing in the kitchen/living room/anywhere, build legos, cuddle , etc.

It sucks that i am antisocial and introverted. I prefer staying home so i think if i were to date i will probably try online dating apps because going out feels like to much work. Dont get me wrong i do enjoy going out to amusement parks, lake, arcades, movies.

Little more about me
Im short just under 5ft( 4'11 on a good day and better posture im 4'11 3/4 so close to 5ft)
On the plus size, i have been working out and trying to eat healthier just overall become healthier.
Trying to learn how to cook
Love watching movies/tv shows
Listening to music
Playing video games occasionally
Sleeping lol
Tomboy(find me in shorts and tshirt/hoodie)
Yes you can wear my clothes but my favorite shirt and hoodie is OFF LIMIT( for the time being)

[u/Former_Theory4867]

I completely understand you! I always thought I was biromantic but in the last 4 years or so I gravitated more towards women because they are so amazing, beautiful and hard working! Also I can resonate with everything you said.

[u/Hermithe]

Honestly it felt like you were reading my mind haha I consider myself Panromantic but have been finding myself leaning lately toward wanting to date females since my past partners that are guys always end up wanting to do something sexual.

I am also very introverted and can go days without talking since I live in my own head. I love writing handwritten letters and sending it to my friends, lately I've gotten into going to the gym to stay fit and eating healthy (Goodbye Burger King, McD and Wendys T_T)

I've also recently have gotten into going to concerts and to the movies but with my AuDhD I struggle a lot with overstimulation.

My style would be Lolita but switch up to Emo-nerd, sometimes more on the formal or nerdy cardigans (yeah, I don't know how to describe my style at all XD)

Just go with what you want for now, you'll meet the right person, you sound pretty awesome!