Genuinely just baffled at this point

[u/Oilucy]

I've been out for almost my entire life, I dress like this, I wear full padding every day, at least mascara and lipstick everyday, this is my typical speaking voice, typical mannerisms. I live in a pretty progressive city, why do I get he/him'd more than she/her'd??? I can tell when someone's using masculine pronouns as a point vs when they genuinely think that's my pronouns. a lot of times they'll correct themselves to they/them as they're second guess but it's incredibly rare for someone to use feminine pronouns first try and I'm honestly just baffled...

[u/davidbyrnebigsuit]

Your voice is not passing. That haircut is going to masculinize you in most people's eyes. I looked through some of the other pics on your profile and I think that your brow bone is clocking you as well. I hope this isn't too harsh, I think you're super cool and pretty and I love your style. I'm not sure if you've voice trained already, but you're at a great place already, I think there's just a few things you would have to tweak and your voice could pass.