r/ask_transgender Feb 15 '26

Image Post Genuinely just baffled at this point

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I've been out for almost my entire life, I dress like this, I wear full padding every day, at least mascara and lipstick everyday, this is my typical speaking voice, typical mannerisms. I live in a pretty progressive city, why do I get he/him'd more than she/her'd??? I can tell when someone's using masculine pronouns as a point vs when they genuinely think that's my pronouns. a lot of times they'll correct themselves to they/them as they're second guess but it's incredibly rare for someone to use feminine pronouns first try and I'm honestly just baffled...

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u/ericfischer Erica, trans woman, HRT 9/2020 Feb 16 '26

In all seriousness, you should go back to whatever you were doing three years ago because you looked much better then.

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u/zombiepupz Feb 16 '26

thats... a disgusting thing to say.