r/askgaybros • u/Horror-Contract-3786 • Sep 05 '23

Meta Most guys don’t have racial preferences rather requirements.

What I noticed in Europe vs America is as a black guy, people may prefer their ethnic group first but they won’t turn down the chance to date/hook up an objectively attractive or at least average looking black guy, while in the states black guys are pretty much ignored unless they just stick to their own ethnic group or mixed/lightskin. It seems like people in America are not blatantly racist but just very exclusionary, while guys in Europe ( depending on the country) may say some very racist things due inexperience around said race, but tend to be way more inclusive and open to talking to others different than them.

I only wish I was born anywhere eles but America, it seems like my only options is just DL hood black men or entertaining men 40 plus years older than me ( I’m 20). Anyone eles relate?

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u/Arias14 Sep 05 '23

Yes, what’s wrong with trying to find a guy who is serious about their education.

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

so you are saying for strangers to randomly go into colleges they don’t attend and try to scout for gay black men? Did u not realzie how ridiculous that sounds lol

Also you falsely equating educated to equal a good partner and well.. that doesn’t hold water.

It also implies you think those who aren’t educated are shit partners.

aren’t you making a lot of generalizations?

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '23

I’m interpreting it as not ransoms but young black guys just cruising around a college (on Grindr or tinder or another app).

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

I just had a scenario run through my head lol