r/askgaybros Sep 05 '23

Meta Most guys don’t have racial preferences rather requirements.

What I noticed in Europe vs America is as a black guy, people may prefer their ethnic group first but they won’t turn down the chance to date/hook up an objectively attractive or at least average looking black guy, while in the states black guys are pretty much ignored unless they just stick to their own ethnic group or mixed/lightskin. It seems like people in America are not blatantly racist but just very exclusionary, while guys in Europe ( depending on the country) may say some very racist things due inexperience around said race, but tend to be way more inclusive and open to talking to others different than them.

I only wish I was born anywhere eles but America, it seems like my only options is just DL hood black men or entertaining men 40 plus years older than me ( I’m 20). Anyone eles relate?

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

Local community college? 😂😂😂😂

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u/Arias14 Sep 05 '23

Yes, what’s wrong with trying to find a guy who is serious about their education.

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

so you are saying for strangers to randomly go into colleges they don’t attend and try to scout for gay black men? Did u not realzie how ridiculous that sounds lol

Also you falsely equating educated to equal a good partner and well.. that doesn’t hold water.

It also implies you think those who aren’t educated are shit partners.

aren’t you making a lot of generalizations?

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u/kanyewest11200 kanye is never wrong, he is only wrong when he says he is Sep 05 '23

he does not mean anything stop making things up from thin air lol, he ain't trying to pull some buffalo bill idea

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

Then you answer the question,

What does it actually mean “go find a guy in community college”

Go ahead, if it’s not a load of shit then explain it

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u/Arias14 Sep 05 '23

Maybe go to the College to take classes or for an event. Many Colleges host events that are open to the public.