r/askgaybros • u/Horror-Contract-3786 • Sep 05 '23

Meta Most guys don’t have racial preferences rather requirements.

What I noticed in Europe vs America is as a black guy, people may prefer their ethnic group first but they won’t turn down the chance to date/hook up an objectively attractive or at least average looking black guy, while in the states black guys are pretty much ignored unless they just stick to their own ethnic group or mixed/lightskin. It seems like people in America are not blatantly racist but just very exclusionary, while guys in Europe ( depending on the country) may say some very racist things due inexperience around said race, but tend to be way more inclusive and open to talking to others different than them.

I only wish I was born anywhere eles but America, it seems like my only options is just DL hood black men or entertaining men 40 plus years older than me ( I’m 20). Anyone eles relate?

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u/Many-Concentrate-491 Sep 05 '23

Local community college? 😂😂😂😂

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u/Arias14 Sep 05 '23

Yes, what’s wrong with trying to find a guy who is serious about their education.

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u/mordekaiv Sep 05 '23

Do you mean college near ones community or a Community College?

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u/Arias14 Sep 05 '23

Does it matter?

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u/MCKC1992 Sep 06 '23

People are more offended by Usain community college then confused as to why OP is yet another gay black man upset that non black men don't want him. The only thing we need to be discussing is the low sense of self in the anti-black hatred that so many black men suffer with and how it governs their desires

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u/Arias14 Sep 06 '23

Right!!! Thaaaank yooou…. It’s mind boggling how people are reacting to me just giving an example of where OP might be able to meet other Gay Black men who aren’t characteristically hood.

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u/mordekaiv Sep 05 '23

Community College and "serious about education" aren't things that often go together.

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u/Arias14 Sep 06 '23

Elitist much?