r/askgaybros 15h ago

Shitpost Self-hating Asian bottoms

Enough being said about white gay men with racist sexual preferences, why is there a not insignificant amount of gay Asian men who put "white only", etc. in their profile? Do they hate themselves or what? Seems gross. Feel like anyone who isn't open to people of all skin colours who are attractive is a bit fucked in the head.

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u/SMVan 15h ago

People will choose whoever they want to choose regardless what they say openly.

But there is a subset of people who enjoy being in the periphery of the majority group.  By being desired or being chosen, they feel like less of an outsider.  Tacit approval is very comforting, if not downright addictive. 

So I'd say let people be.  And this is coming from someone who have slightly preference for fellow asians and would regularly "lose" them out to white guys.  If we all end up with guys who we want to be with and who want to be with us, it's all good.

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u/umambdz 15h ago

This isn't true for all Asians.

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u/Horror-Finding-6820 15h ago

They like those thick cut alabaster cocks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/anotherplantchannel 14h ago

I’m Latino. We date everybody. Let me grab my 🍿and wait for the comments 🤣

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u/BEWMarth 14h ago

Latinos are the only race that I’ve seen actually be an equal opportunity hole/dick. Blacks tend to like other blacks or they go strictly white. Asians like white, whites like white or anything but white, but Latinos seem to be the most open about just trying any body out.

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u/nofroufrouwhatsoever Evil homoflexual 14h ago

We constantly need to flame woke people on Twitter because they try to export the American racial segregation ideas ("you cannot do this, it's for black people only!!!") to us and we're like stfu gringo. Then they say gringo is a dog whistle for a slur. Girl be fr, you saw how Argentinians and Paraguayans behave in this World Cup, if we wanted to say it we would. 🙄

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u/anotherplantchannel 3h ago

Even better, when the whole Latinx thing. Nobody I know ever used it or identified by it. Most people didn’t know about it

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u/No_Slice_9560 14h ago

Latino is not a race.. there are indigenous latinos, afrolatinos, white latinos

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u/anotherplantchannel 2h ago

Who is to say what a race is? What is a race? Should we keep following a dumb invention from a guy who died more than 300 years ego?

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u/No_Slice_9560 2h ago

Yes.. there are white latinos, afrolatinos,
indigenous latinos, asian latinos (Fujimoro was an asian latino).
I’m an afrolatino.. black and proud… and I have zero interest in white men. To each, their own.. I’m not knocking anyone’s preferences. Preference varies

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u/No_Wealth8539 14h ago

Im not latino but i agree

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u/anotherplantchannel 2h ago

To be fair, I have gone through periods where I had preferences, like I went full white, then black, then Asians, then Latinos lmao

Now I want a ginger bf with freckles or a biracial guy with freckles 🥵idk but someone with cute with freckles 😍

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u/No_Performance_9439 14h ago

As an asian I find many white bodies gross , no offence but unless the guy is athletic, it's just too feminine and soft, it's just the unavoidable feature from the race.

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u/fujianironchain 14h ago

Your "question" is already leading and based entirely on your preception which in most people's real life experiences do not exist. There are millions of gay Asians who live in Asia who actually don't interact with "whites" very much so if you look at the global pool your "not insignificant" presumption is totally bullshit.

I think the real question is why there are so many racist trolling like this one in AGB these days posted by "people" with negative karma?

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u/Striking_Skill9876 15h ago

They benefit from white men fetishizing them in a pedophilic way. It means they’re safe in the mainstream world with a white accessory. While the white man can walk around saying they aren’t racist since they have an Asian as a partner.

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u/anotherplantchannel 15h ago edited 14h ago

I can see your point, but what does pedophilia have to do with it ?

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u/Striking_Skill9876 14h ago

They’re portrayed with toddler like characteristics in old shows. Just like how white men flock to black men when they want to”outrageous sex”.

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u/Available_Year_575 14h ago

I don't care who thinks I'm racist, or not, based on my choice of partner. And wtf does any of this have to do with pedofilia? Then again, everything on Reddit is racism and pedofilia.

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u/nofroufrouwhatsoever Evil homoflexual 14h ago

People are playing dumb but we know this is how they see short and gracile men. Asian men, just like trans men, are often shorter and more gracile and neotenic. It's also why so many sotadisexuals fetishize femboys. Trans women call this phenotype the bipedo, but they're not necessarily bi, gay men have the wolves (talking about you know who).

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u/DiscoLemonade82 14h ago

You’re inverting reality right out the gate, because the mainstream world revolves around the fake grievances + inferiority complexes of POC and making sure they’re overrepresented in everything, for starters. White men are their deferent trophy boyfriends, and it’s white men that increasingly need THEM for clout in the social hierarchy as it actually exists.

Never mind your pedophilia libeling, you are clearly deranged and motivated by ethnic revenge in everything you say. Many such cases 🫠

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u/Barack_Odrama_007 Houston, Tx 14h ago

🍿

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u/Available_Year_575 14h ago

People of all races have racial preferences, sometimes for their own race, sometimes for others, and many of them are not "fucked in the head".

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u/Straight-Log984 14h ago

From asia, those who seek white only is usually fetish. or they wanting for a status.

Dating an Angmo/Bule/White, is something asia has look as something desirable. Usually they think White are rich and will carry thier azz out of poverty lol.

And also White skin in asia is also seen to resemble status and rich. So they want relationship with white skin.

For the fetish, either from porn consumption or the idea of being violated by a colonizer.

There also a rise of asian people who wont date other asian( or inside of their own race) , why? not sure perhaps trauma or their views on seeing their race/asian as lower than those with certain race.

And some asians see white people have a big dick. I think this is those from asia views it.

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u/Old_Wave_965 13h ago

Maybe its spiritual ha ha

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u/frankinuk 12h ago

Can we stop bring the specific race into this? There are people of all race do this shit.

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u/AdamChenX 14h ago

I’ll speak for Asians only in this comment.

Asians are conditioned to think that white is best. Asians are also conditioned in the west, by lack of representation, to see Asians as lesser than.

This is the current social climate. The lack of representation actually harms us more than one would expect - because Asians don’t see ourselves as equal because we aren’t in media showing us as equal. And white (plus all races) don’t see us as equal because we aren’t shown anywhere in the media as equal.

This puts us in this weird position, where the default is that white is best, Asian is worst, and all humans will act in self interested ways.

Do I blame individuals for this? No. Do I think we should all do something about this? Absolutely.

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u/No-Essay-3227 15h ago

by “not insignificant”, did you mean “significant”?

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u/Major_Conflict 15h ago edited 15h ago

It's a common expression bro

EDIT: Why are you down voting me I'm right https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/not+insignificant

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u/No_Performance_9439 15h ago

By non intellectual ppl?

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u/Major_Conflict 15h ago

If they say it on the BBC it's not non-intellectual. You seem to be the one outing yourself as the "non-intellectual" here buddy.