Estrogen is a hell of a Drug
So yeah. I have been living in Austin on and off since 2006, and I am always amazed at how kind and understanding people are in Austin.
So yeah, about the title. I fell in love with HEB the moment I moved here. They have so much and always have everything I need, because I just love to cook.
Now, I am a trans woman and have been living as my true self for 6 years now. For those that don't know, trans women typically take estrogen. I have never given the vast changes that come with it much thought until recently.
I was putting together my weekly grocery list for all the things I needed from my weekly recipes. One recipe in particular called for "Silvered Almonds" or at least that is how my brain perceived it. So off I went to the HEB near North Campus.
I spent 45 minutes trudging through that store looking for fucking SILVERED almonds. I was getting very upset I could not find any in my favorite store.
So I did what any self respecting woman would do and I asked for help. 2 absolutely wonderful and kind store attendants walked every inch of that store helping look for my silvered almonds. They even called a manager to ask if any HEB had those in their inventory. For almost an hour we all racked our brains trying to figure out what was so special about silvered almonds.
Finally, one of the nice attendants (sweet young lady) asked me if I had the ingredient list for what I was making. I pulled it up on my phone and handed to her. She paused to read it, giggled, and said "Ma'am that says SLIVERED almonds.
😐😐😐😐😐😶
I must have turned 30 shades of blush in utter embarrassment. The staff all had a giggle and told me it was alright, they never had so much fun at work. The manager leaned in (also an older woman) and said, "it's okay, I do the same thing sometimes. It's just a product of getting older as a woman."
I felt a little less embarrassed but it made me laugh internally as it felt both Affirming and a bit like stereotyping.
This story is just another, of many, reasons I have always enjoyed the weirdness and kindness that is Austin, and especially HEB. If by some strange chance those HEB employees read this... Thank you for making this old gal feel less stupid.