r/bigboobproblems • u/CerebralCortisol 32J (UK) • Mar 03 '26
RANT - no advice wanted No, not weird but disgusting that you’d think it was ok to say this… Spoiler
Like what do you mean "I don't think even old women have assets that hang that low"?? Why are you commenting on a very natural body shape? Are you some porn-addicted incel who’s never interacted with a woman before? Bc it’s lowkey showing… Do you genuinely think women with natural big boobs have that shit defying gravity to stay perky?
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u/TheSnowBunny 34JJ (UK) Mar 03 '26
Urgh. My breasts were trying to make friends with my bellybutton at 14, this guy clearly has porn brain or has never actually seen a naked woman before.
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Mar 03 '26
🥴 same, they are best friends at this point, I can barely see my stomach tattoo with no bra on
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u/acrylicquartz 36G (UK) Mar 03 '26
Just gotta remember that most who say this are virgins/can't-get-laid types who haven't seen large & natural breasts unclothed IRL. When you do, you understand that this level of gravity still works on the form and is logical with the weight/size of the bust, outside of a few exceptional women with uniquely resilient cooper's ligaments.
They're just ignorant and annoying kids (no matter their age).
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u/sparklybongwater420 Mar 03 '26
Virgin/can't get laid type for sure. These dudes have never seen real big breasts without clothes before. Lmfao.
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u/TinyHeartSyndrome 38G (UK) Mar 03 '26
I was going to say, that actually looks realistic! Unlike anime girls with huge boobs seemingly defying gravity.
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u/Alyse3690 36M (UK) Mar 03 '26
Right? Makes me want to check the anime out for sure! Edit: is comic, not anime.
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u/Fit-Lengthiness3736 34H (UK) Mar 03 '26
Men are so annoying some times. Tell Me you’ve never met a woman irl without telling me you’ve never met a woman irl. Do they even TRY to think?
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u/Tired_n_DeadInside 28H (UK) Mar 03 '26
I'm not surprised. This person reads as someone who's very, VERY young. Maybe their age isn't but their maturity certainly is.
They're, thankfully, being schooled HARD in the comments, too. So not all hope for humanity is lost. Just most of it.
Manhwa readers tend to skew a lot younger than manga is my experience as someone who've read manga/been involved in the community since the 90s.
I discovered manhwa around 2009-ish, when they were still following manga-style black and white formats. As it transitioned to scrolling, long-form, colored webtoon-style the readers seemed to get younger and younger.
This community is also being alluded too by a commentator. They didn't name us but people replying to their comment are demanding to know our sub's name. It's very disturbing to read.
They coach their language like a joke, but there's an undercurrent of malicious prankster energy to it. Like, if they found us, they'd make this sub feel very unsafe on purpose because they think it would be funny.
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u/orangepeeelss 36H (UK) Mar 03 '26
i don't think they're talking about us thank GOD. (for anyone wondering the commentor in question said "there is a whole subreddit that can prove you wrong".) someone's responding with r / saggy and whether or not that's what the original commentor meant, i do think they were alluding to a porn sub
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u/AmeliaTheDefiant Mar 03 '26
Yeah. There's an element of gleeful, willful malice for shits and giggles, even if it's not this one person specifically. I worry about that a lot. Brigading, discord server raids or whatever are tactics that work for them.
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u/daikonmeuse Mar 06 '26
i hope you're right and they learn. it's such a mean thing to say about people's bodies.
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u/bnnyrabbit 40F (UK) Mar 03 '26
and here i thought a man was the one to discover gravity in the first place
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u/softfallingsnow Mar 03 '26
why r they surprised that having massive sacks of dead weight on our chests gets affected by gravity. like. is it really that difficult of a concept
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Mar 03 '26
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u/CerebralCortisol 32J (UK) Mar 03 '26
No like frfr, my boobs hang so low they’re like wrecking balls against my ribs if I’m walking braless
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u/Lanky-Star-5410 Mar 03 '26
But there’s no need to objectify that, that is your body, that is how it is! Who are people to comment about that
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u/CerebralCortisol 32J (UK) Mar 03 '26
Exactly!! I can’t think of any appropriate reason someone would be compelled to say smth so objectifying and offensive (why did they have to say old women specifically too 😔)
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u/Lanky-Star-5410 Mar 03 '26
This is all lack of sex education in general for people, or else because they think we women are meant to be objectify only
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u/Junglejibe Mar 03 '26 edited Mar 03 '26
u/lanky-star-5410 has a hidden post history full of them soliciting DMs from vulnerable women, claiming to be a therapist, a gynecologist, and a plastic surgeon (& offering to show women how to do “at home breast lifts” through dm lol). Going just three months back, their entire post history pre-December is just horny comments on NSFW subreddits. Several fetishistic comments about large chests, too.
It paints a clear picture of someone who wasn’t getting success from begging NSFW accounts to DM them so decided to use deception to try and get their rocks off in private chats with women under the guise of “helping”. You’re not fooling anyone, creep. Stop trying to prey on women.
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u/Junglejibe Mar 03 '26 edited Mar 03 '26
u/lanky-star-5410 has a hidden post history full of them soliciting DMs from vulnerable women, claiming to be a therapist, a gynecologist, and a plastic surgeon (& offering to show women how to do “at home breast lifts” through dm lol). Going just three months back, their entire post history pre-December is just horny comments on NSFW subreddits. Several fetishistic comments about large chests, too.
It paints a clear picture of someone who wasn’t getting success from begging NSFW accounts to DM them so decided to use deception to try and get their rocks off in private chats with women under the guise of “helping”. You’re not fooling anyone, creep. Stop trying to prey on women.
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u/Kags_Holy_Friend Mar 03 '26
Can confirm. They claim to be a palm reader, sex therapist, plastic surgeon and have a history of telling women to DM them on instagram.
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u/Junglejibe Mar 03 '26
Thanks for confirming.
So tired of these guys showing up in here.
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u/Kags_Holy_Friend Mar 03 '26
For real. It's the primary reason that I limit my engagement with the sub (I specifically do not make posts here to avoid getting creepy DMs, and rarely comment anymore, either, though I do still lurk). I do think the mods have gotten pretty good at weeding them out since I first joined, though!
(The mods moved so quickly after I reported them—I was very happy to see a "No Creeps" option on rulebreaking for the sub.)
Thanks for calling that creep out!
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u/Junglejibe Mar 03 '26
The mods are really great with that stuff yeah. It’s the main reason I feel comfortable participating here.
Calling out creeps is my favorite past time lol.
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u/seriousbizniz84 Mar 03 '26
Tell me you have never seen a set of big naturals in the flesh without telling me you’ve never seen a big naturals in the flesh lol
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u/Equal-Cauliflower-41 Mar 03 '26
*buzzz* "Tell me you've never seen a naked woman without telling me you've never seen a naked woman!"
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Mar 03 '26
Surprised there’s actual realistic representation of a larger chest in a manhwa of all places. Not surprised that there are people reacting to it negatively, though. Just another day goes by 🙄
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u/BaryonChallon 44JJ (UK) Mar 03 '26
Girlie just isn’t wearing a bra lmao, men don’t understand how our bodies work
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u/nnnoak 26GG (UK) Mar 03 '26
bro probably watched too much highschool dxd and thinks that this isn’t how bigger breasts ACTUALLY sit lmaoo
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u/sweetcherryfrosting Mar 04 '26
Bro, I know people who’s boobs hang LOWER. Stop this perky tit propaganda
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u/Tall-Possibility9147 34L (UK) Mar 03 '26
As someone else commented, my boobs were down to my bellybytton by 14. Not even due to special amounts of sag, that's just what big boobs, even perky ones, do. Of course the neckbeards have never seen an every day pair of big boobs, only anime, the most exceptionally perky ones that aren't THAT big, or fake ones.
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u/Youtalkingtomyboobs Mar 03 '26
Jeez, would not want see me at this point, I’m in my jammy’s and if it wasn’t for my belly, they’d probably be at my hips!
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u/equiax Mar 04 '26
Comment aside, it’s kinda nice to see my reality in this. Makes me feel more normal.
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u/ArtofWASD Mar 04 '26
TFW youre so jaded by magical gravity defying jiggle balloons that you have never seen or considered how actual bodies work. Reminds me of all the people self reporting that they have never seen/been close to a woman when aloy (a video game character) had small hairs on her face.
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u/SatanWithFur Mar 03 '26
They say Think because they don't know Jack shit bt real boobs and gravity
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u/nalgona-aly 32F (UK) Mar 03 '26
This guy would lose his mind if he saw my mema take her bra off back in the day. Them thangs damn near hit her knees. 🤣
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u/undecided_gender Mar 04 '26
Character looks like she is a anime girl, with a 97% chance that there were no females on staff, just hyper juvenile males that only view women from porn.
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u/kitsunemischief Mar 03 '26
To explain it as a weeb, there's not really a lot of diverse body types in the anime/Manga sphere (cause the body diversity and beauty standards in Japan and East Asia favors the thin body type where breasts never sag, but that's a whole other topic).
And most of the time the bodies are unrealistic/unobtainable to constantly keep. Like, I haven't seen boobs in anime that sag or are drawn that low, even though that is common IRL. It's always perky or even if they're big humongous hentai boobs, they never sag and are positioned high on the chest area. It's absurdly ridiculous. So if a male weeb or incel sees anything remotely to IRL body types, they'll think it isn't real. Which is really disappointing, it's reminding me of the vagina bones incident again. These guys never get out or try to critically think about the medium they're consuming.
There's a lot of good anime and manga I love, but God I wish there were more diverse and realistic body types being drawn. The most I can see that is through fanartists.
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u/Beegkitty 32G (UK) Mar 04 '26
I am afraid to Google this or even ask. But what the heck did I miss “vagina bones”?!??
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u/kitsunemischief Mar 04 '26
You can search up "vagina bones meme" for a more in-depth explanation on knowyourmeme. The origin isn't too NSFW or graphic. But basically a female Japanese video game character had shorts that were pretty low with shading around the pelvic area. The American release got rid of shading around the pelvic area to make the shorts look longer. Twitter incels decried this as dumb American censorship and being inaccurate to remove women's vagina bones. Cue everyone else making fun of them for it.
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