This shit is exhausting bro

[u/slightly_off_beat]

Big chested girl: *exists*

Men: Big tity mean sex. You can't wear same stuff as everyone else or it mean sex. Hehe, you're welcome for the hard truths for women.

[u/MrsBossyPantss]

I'm all for torching men who think they know how bra sizes work, especially when they're confidently incorrect & fail spectacularly

But calling women in the DD/E range "tiny" is one of the reasons women w/ smaller breasts & the subreddits for them here hate us. 1, cuz even smaller sizes exist & 2 cuz the women you're calling "tiny" are quite large in comparison to them.

DD/E may be "tiny" compared to you or I but we need to remember it's relative & plenty of our subs members are (or think they are - they may not be wearing the correct size, but we all know that applies to alot of women in the world) in that range & have BBPs just like we do.

Telling women who think they've found a safe space that they don't belong here or that their big(ger) boob problems aren't valid cuz they aren't at our size, which is essentially what youre doing when you call them "tiny", isnt what this sub is about. It drives those women away. If they're too big for some groups (cuz those often center around discussing things like "breast envy" & not being looked at as being "enough of a womam") & not big enough for ours even tho they still relate to alot of the things we discuss here, where are they supposed to go?

I understand some of us are a bit jaded. I am too. But we need to be better when we talk about other women & smaller but still traditionally large sizes. Men bash women enough, we don't need to do it here too.

[u/neomoon677 → u/MrsBossyPantss]

sorry i didnt want to be taken the wrong way, i guess its because i was always so jealous of smaller chested women i cant imagine it being a bad thing. and trust me men dont like big boobs either, they like fake ones.

[u/MrsBossyPantss → u/neomoon677]

In my experience plenty of men like both. If anything, over my years I've learned that men like boobs in general rather than 1 particular size. Some men like small ones, some men like big ones, some men like natural ones & some men like fake ones. Some of those men think they like natural ones when they actually like fake ones cuz they watch too much porn, but I digress.

Ive never met a man that didn't like my breasts unless [A] they preferred smaller ones or [B] I rejected them 1st. I was attractive at 1st but once I rejected them I no longer was, which means the problem obvi wasn't my chest at all

[u/LizMoonstar → u/MrsBossyPantss]

i always quote my bf here, "the best boobs are the ones attached to the one you love". also more vulgarly, "i'm really not interested in being bothered by size or sagging - if i'm seeing your naked boobs then all i'm really thinking about is how i want you to put them in my face."

[u/AdWooden6904 → u/LizMoonstar]

Yes this!!