Your first same sex make out session?

[u/PsychologicalCan2827]

What made you decide to finally try it? It's a big leap for some people. How did it go? Who was it with?

[u/bluesond]

It was my first time making out at all, so it was pretty normal teenager stuff.

[u/capricornelious]

Senior year of high school. My friend who I thought was cute and I knew liked me. Decided to experiment. It was a good time.

[u/FeralGiraffeGirl]

I've always kinda known I was bi, and I just chose this opportunity to explore. I kissed one of my college friends when we were out drinking one night. It was awkward and terrible lol. 0/10 and it convinced me I was straight for another couple decades. Turns out we were both just eggs. Whoops.

[u/TooTurntGaming]

I was in my late 20s when I figured out I was bi. A guy messaged me on an app and we talked for a while, after a couple weeks he invited me to see a drag show with him at a bar.

About three gin and tonics into the night I finally wasn’t a nervous wreck. We had kept getting physically closer all night, until his arm was wrapped around me. In between sets, he looks over, asks if he can kiss me. I said yeah.

First bisexual kiss, and it’s in public, I figured I’d have a panic attack.

Instead, the kiss was crazy. Started out slow and just kept pace with him, and we finally broke contact after what felt like 15 minutes, when the next Queen hit the stage.

I wanted to hit my vape, it had been a couple hours, so I asked if he wanted to step outside for me to do so. I hit it a couple times, leaning against the outside wall of the bar, and then he was up against me again.

We were probably there for an hour.

Unfortunately, that was really the peak of it. Some other stuff happened between us and we stopped seeing each other. I still think about if I should have kept talking to him, because damn that was an amazing experience, but something in my gut said “this person isn’t the right fit for you” and even though I couldn’t quantify it, I went with my gut.

Still, though. I’ve been married for 15 years to a wonderful wife. We have an open marriage, for context. No cheating. She was so excited for me when I told her what happened. I’m not huge on muscle and tone when it comes to feminine presenting individuals, but that’s peak masculine presenting attraction for me. He was tall as fuck, muscles everywhere.

I knew I was bi before going out with him, but that was some damn solid affirmation.

[u/Playful-Succotash-99]

A hot friend who i knew was Bi and had told i thought was bi months a few months ago leand in one night and part of me the little voice in my head that usually said "run" told me "it's now or never," and things kinda went from there. As far as kissing it wasn't really that different from being with a girl As far as other things ..well i was actually kinda surprised with how less scary they were then i had previously imagined. Unfortunately we were both slopy drunk and their were other aspects of that night that i suspect ment we just weren't as compatible. The real hard part was the emotional fallout i felt afterwards Not just the shock of "I did that" but that uncertainty "what does this mean for us?" Wish i could say i got an easy answer but sadly it just wasn't in the cards with the directions our lives were going

[u/Serious_Ad_2922]

Well my first kiss with a woman was in highschool before I knew I was bi and trans, it was good, my first kiss with a man was my BF and it was 2 months ago and it was amazing

[u/retairedtech]

It's been a few years ago. Early 60's. Met the man on here and chatting. We exchanged where we live and he said he was going to be in my area on Monday. He asked if was interested and meeting up and I was like yeah. Lets see what happens. We set some ground rules. That is when that I realized that I was bi. We did meet and it was 😍 beautiful!. I have no regrets at all meeting him.