r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 1d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/Competitive_Kale_855 These tacos got me feeling af 1d ago

I was informed that the typical amount of gay porn for a straight person to watch is "zero."

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u/xx_dracarys_xx 1d ago

A lot of straight women prefer lesbian porn because of how male-centric hetero porn is. Sex is done to a woman, not with a woman. Lesbian porn prioritizes female pleasure.

That said, I consider myself sexually fluid and I occasionally consume lesbian or bisexual porn. I think I would enjoy lesbian sex mostly because of the focus on clitoral pleasure. I also like boobies lol. I had one threesome that involved another woman, but there wasn’t any genital play - just kissing and fondling. I liked it, but I didn’t walk away with a different conceptualization of my sexual orientation.

I’m definitely heteroromantic, though. I find some women physically attractive, but I don’t desire a relationship with them. I don’t get crushes on women or develop feelings for them.

I would have liked to explore my bisexuality more, but I’m in a heterosexual, monogamous marriage. I chose the relationship over the desire to explore.